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I live at home with a very negative family who says I play victim, but they don't realize how negative their words and actions are. How do I get them to have faith in me? As well as in my love since they disapprove of him?
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I find that whenever I speak with my family when I'm feeling low that this is the type of vibe I'd get from them. They are concerned about me, and they just don't want to see me in pain.
Perhaps your family is not being negative, but rather are just trying to help you in the way they only know how. They are not aware of what they can create and are still walking in this world in a daze...unaware of how we are the creators of our reality. Forgive them for this, as they do not know.
Perhaps it is more important to just love them and accept their love for what it is? Right now they don't need to approve of your love.....only you do. These things can be worked out when the time is right.
Remember that we have faith in ourselves, and that there are others here on this forum that have faith in what we can create.
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The people around you at any given time are only giving a voice to the feelings you have inside you. The are a reflection of your inner thoughts. So use the experience as a tool for pinpointing where you still have fears or insecurities π
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Cherished wrote:
The people around you at any given time are only giving a voice to the feelings you have inside you. The are a reflection of your inner π gets. So use the experience as a tool for pinpointing where you still have fears or insecurities π
Well, I still have resistance with my family having doubts with me and the choices that I make. That they will always see me as a problem who plays victim as they always say.
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holistichealing wrote:
I live at home with a very negative family who says I play victim, but they don't realize how negative their words and actions are. How do I get them to have faith in me? As well as in my love since they disapprove of him?
As Mahatma Gandhi said, Be the change you want to see in the world, it is applicable here as well. It will start manifesting. You will change it by your inspired actions, holistichealing
Sending you love and light!
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Exactly. You have to change the way YOU see and feel. And others will follow your lead.