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Bellecat wrote:
He seems to have disappeared again
Not even a reply to merry Christmas
Then Universe have some plans for you. Relax yourself. It is going to happen
Sending you love and light!!!
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It's so hard to see his building everywhere I go (tall building in the cbd can be seen everywhere) and know he isn't talking to me!
If you've had success what have you done?
I'm off to the gym tomorrow to make myself feel better and maybe do yoga at home if it's quiet.
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I know it's hard Bella, I live two minutes away from my love and sometimes I have to drive his route in to drive he mornings. Seeing his car parked up makes me feel so close yet so far. But when I'm in a good mood I like to imagine that he's either tremendously busy with school and work, or sitting at home missing me and being shy about expressing his feelings. The exercise and yoga will help to calm and center you. Always find something to feel positive about.
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I give up, he's stubborn. One text and that's all I get. So much for being friends I don't know what it is about me he hates
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It's never about the other person. What is it about you that you hate?
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I think it's the vibration you're sending out that's in need of a little fixing, like he probably feels how much you are anticipating his contact, that he has you nervous and shakey and down in yourself a bit and he's probably a good guy and doesn't like that effect he has on you so maybe he worries that you will be a bit too dependent on him if he enters into a relationship with you even though he does want to. Just think to yourself how much he likes you and the real you, the happy and confident and secure you and how he would kill to have you in his life but you have to show him through your vibration that that is the woman you really are like don't worry that he didn't contact you, it would have been nice if he did, but sure, you have so much love in your life already the more of that confident vibration of 'I don't need you but I'd like to be with you' you give out, the more he will come Β
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I feel like I am terrible at this!
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Belle, you are not terrible at this! Focus on yourself first. You are too attached, too pre-occupied with him. The Universe knows what you want, trust and have faith and let it go. Do things for YOU. Do things that make YOU happy. He's not texting now but he WILL. <3
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Right now I am stopping myself ringing him as my beloved cat died :'(
I'm also missing my ex husband he'd be so upset she died
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Oh dear I am so sorry about your cat. I have 3 of my own and I can imagine how it feels. Sending you love and e-hugs.