Cherished, thank you for your words. They are great. So can I visualize my mom happy and healthy and having a job? Or script out a scenario of like her telling me that she's wanting to go out more and work and be happy and healthy? Like I said in my post, I love her to death and right now I'm technically her caregiver since she can't work due to her back issues, but she doesn't want to get the surgery she needs because she's scared. I just want her and me and everyone to be happy and healthy and in peace and just have a sense of what life has to offer.