You haven't been clear about what you want to achieve.

If it were me, I would visualise things being the ideal way I wanted them to be, ignoring outward appearances. Remember, you've got to be happy with your own life and not base all of your happiness on only being with another person.

Also, Neville Goddard said and proved from examples that you can influence other people's lives in a positive way. For example, there was a man who was unhappy at his job and resigned but really needed the money, and his friend visualised him being gainfully employed and making 25% more money, and he went immediately from the old job to the new one with that exact pay rise.

Last edited by Cynthia (9/20/2017 12:56 pm)

I understand how you feel.  Not that I've been in love that many times, but there isn't anybody from most of my past that I'd ever want anything to do with again because I deserve much better and did then as well but didn't realise it.

The Neville Goddard example I gave I heard in one of his lectures that somebody put on youtube.  My preference for his lectures there is under 100kwatt. It's Neville himself, not somebody else reading them. I don't know which lecture it was off hand, but I listen to them frequently so next time I hear that one I'll put its name on here.

As far as Neville's books go, my favourite one is called The Law and The Promise because it contains many actual letters from people detailing how they made his teachings work for them, sometimes in miraculous ways, in a variety of different situations. My personal favourite is the one about the lady who imagined her specific person back into her life after meeting him on a blind date and ended up happily married to him in a matter of months, and they were both happy, not just her.  I noticed earlier today that somebody had copied that whole story from the book and posted it somewhere here.  Neville did that himself with his second wife and told about it in one of his lectures.