Laura1234 wrote:

I dont know. I tell myself that I stop stalking so more times and I dont know stop it..I want deactivated my account byt a few minutes later I was back again..and I stalking him so many times . and its hurt me but I dont know stop it

I asked my friend:

True or false: stalking his profile means it's slowing the process down

She said true.

True or false: stalking him was doing nothing but made me feel bad/ imagined the worst.

She said true.

So i stopped. Because if I truly want him in my life, I would want it to happen as soon as possible. When he's back I can look at him all day.

I still do go into his instagram once in a long while but just to look at his picture and smile.

Tell yourself if you want him back then this is doing nothing but slowing it down. I gave myself a challenge to not look for 24 hours. And when i made it i increase the time length.

You can do it too .

Lifesagas wrote:

Just imagine that he can see everything you're doing.

Would you be attracted to someone that was stalking your on-line activity or would you run for the hills?

What a good way of putting it.

and when I stalking so its probably means that I dont have a selflove? when I know when I do stalking so I dont feel good and I even thought stalking?I dont have selflove when I do things who hurt me right?how I know that I have a really selflove?

Laura1234 wrote:

and when I stalking so its probably means that I dont have a selflove? when I know when I do stalking so I dont feel good and I even thought stalking?I dont have selflove when I do things who hurt me right?how I know that I have a really selflove?

You know you have self love when you make choices that honour you and avoid doing things that don't.