I'm reunited with my long distance partner, I'm grateful and positive about the future and am currently trying to manifest more commitment and security, a trip together to ireland summer '18 and eventually us moving in together, marriage etc.

This cant happen for cpl years yet a we are both single parents (im fine with this as we both have 'stuff' to sort out) So do I still focus on living in the end desire, or focus on the interim goals? Also how do you all personally live 'as if' ?

As an example re: trip to ireland i think about it most days - imagine us there, what we'll be doing, meeting his distant relatives, i have a savings jar already started with little shamrock inside, i bring the ireland trip up with my oh and we discuss the practicalities whether to fly or hire a car, stay in a hotel or with relatives . I have an irish board on pinterest - with lots photos the area hoping to go, also irish pubs, quotes etc and i carry  £5 in my purse - when my oh gave it to me (change for something) i thought to myself i'll keep this for the coffees (or at least one lol!) in the airport departure lounge - hope im doing it right, perhaps i should be doing more visualisation?

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