Hey all, so I wanted to update you all on my progress so far! Some backstory: Me and my guy started hanging out back in May. Everything was going good, we were always spending time together watching movies and just laughing. We were sexual a few times. In June we had a small disagreement, but got over it and continued hanging out. I had fallen for him hard and as time went on I began falling in love with him. I lost my virginity to him. Well come July, we had another disagreement. He thought I said something I didn't say and was a little upset about it. He said he was "over it" but I had a feeling he wasn't. So I backed off and just gave him space and also because my feelings were a little hurt. I didn't wanna lose him and I think I was putting that"needy" vibe out into the universe and it wasn't helping me. I had texted him a week after the disagreement and got no response and of course I was upset. So I backed off even more. We didn't talk from July to September. In that time he had gotten a gf from his hometown. His hometown is 2-3 hours away and he works here where I live. Well, I had begun practicing LOA to attract him back in July and then kind of just "gave up" on it in August. Even dated another guy for a few weeks. 

Well, come September and my guy reached out to me through text. We started talking again. I thought all my feelings and whatnot for him were gone, but boy they came back and with a vengeance when we started talking again! Everything was going good, but of course he still had his gf so I kind of held back a little. Even when he'd flirt with me. I finally broke down and told him how I felt last month. He said he kind of had a feeling I felt that way about him. We were still talking. I asked him a few weeks back how he felt about me when we were first hanging out and he said he had feelings for me and that we always laughed and had a good time and amazing sex and that's all he wanted in a relationship. I thanked him for telling me honestly and I had it off my chest. I distanced myself after that. I began Veronica's 25 day challenge and Lanie's method. I was advised by Lanie and Veronica not to text him, but to let him take the initiative. So I waited and waited. Yesterday, I was feeling down and about to give up when I saw him!!! And then something told me to text him. So I did. Just a jokingly text, that was it. We started texting back and forth joking and being goofs. Well I saw him again last night. It was great. I went home and went to sleep happy. About 3 am he texted me and asked if I was up. I didn't see the text until 7 am so I texted back and said I was sleeping. No response. And then my friend from work messaged me and told me to check his FB. I asked her why, because I haven't been on his Social Media for a month or so and was trying not to because I didn't wanna see the posts him and his gf made. She told me to just check it. So I did. Well he went home this morning and found his gf in bed with a guy. He took a picture and put it on FB and then made another post with a picture of his stuff that said "lesson learned, i'm out". And his status on FB went from "in a relationship" to "single" and his gf isn't on his friends list anymore. In my visualizations with Lanie's method I imagined him telling me he was breaking up with gf to be with me.

I asked him if he was ok. An hour later he said "yea!" and I said ok, and then asked if he was in town, no response yet.

I'm so excited!!! Should I still continue my RS on him or just go with the flow now?!