Lj wrote:

My biggest issue and most damaging blocking thought is,

"how can you get someone back Into your life, when there's absolutely no contact and you are blocked on everything?"

That's One I'm really struggling with.
I always Tell myself it can be done for sure, but there's always this nagging voice in the back of my head, saying it's impossible.

I have no trouble believing you can manifest materialistic things to your life. But when it comes to other people, it's definately a thought of doubts and limiting beliefs.

I got the job of my dreams and I didn't deliver a single resume. The manifestation required people to give me a call, to give me a chance, to trust me blindly, and to like what I do.

Almost every manifestation requires people doing something for you.

You need to build your belief, as I said, and do it in whatever fashion works for you. I used to read success stories in The Secret website, there're some stories about people getting back after decades, people who completely lost contact, not even the email, and just by visualizing, the other person appeared out of the thin with just the right interest to start a new relationship.

Is not people what we are attracting. It's possibilities. Or, you can see it this way: we everyone has all possibilities within them, and we can activate people's behaviors according to our own vibration. 

Read that again.

Everyone has all possibilities within them, and we can activate people's  behaviors according to our own vibration. 

Look, just focus on yourself, and keep your desire around. Don't think about how, when, why and you'll be on your why to letting go. The Universe will always find a way. Can't you trust this Infinite Intelligence? God/Higher Self certainly knows better than us, which is why the Universe delivers manifestations through "the path of least resistance". That's also why, when we receive a desire, it looks so natural. 
 

Last edited by Lolo (6/03/2017 9:14 am)

Your replies are outstanding.
I will definately live by your words of wisdom.
Thank you 😊👌

 "it's okay if he doesn't respond to me because he is hurting, the universe loves me and that is enough"

That's a great mantra that I'm going to incorporate into my life too. I'm proud of you and happy for your progress. Thank you!

 

Lolo, your advice is amazing! I feel so confident! I know I'm getting my guy!! 😊😊

It's funny. It's like I don't even care anymore.
Just saw pictures of her being happy with her family and bf.
Of course it gave a little pinch in my stomach.
But compared to a month ago, where I would have fallen down the rabbithole, today was more like "meh, so what. The universe loves me, and I love the universe. Something Awesome is coming my way Anyways."
I don't even know if I want her back, or if it's just the feeling of being in a loving relationship I want.
I might take her back if she contacts me. But if she doesn't and stays in that relationship forever, I don't really care. The universe got my back, and will deliver happiness to me.
Thank you Lolo, for helping me shift my vibrations.
I will continue with PW, meditations, subliminals and affirmations.
But now, only when I feel like it and only out of love, and not fear and anxiety.