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One of my coworkers were talking to me about my love and I was telling her how my love is going to come back to me she said why don't you try to talk to her because she might not ever come back to you .. You might never talk to her or see her again unless you physically do something .. My vibrations were so high and I was feeling amazing then my coworker said this to me .. I'm trying to get my vibration back and keep my positivity I felt like I wanted to cry because this coworker was telling me it's not possible and I was trying my hardest to convince her I can and it brought me down
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Absolutely agree with Sam. It doesn't matter how high we are vibrationally we still hold subconscious fears. That's ok, it's meant to be that way! You simply have to learn to cast them aside and continue on your way. Your fears have no power, only YOU have power. So if you start focussing on your fears they become a problem. If you acknowledge them and carry on happily, nothing can be created from them.
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Thank you so much guys ! I've been trying to work hard on ignoring all the negativity in my head and negativity and all the stories that get created in my head .. Im focusing on me and my love when negativite thoughts come in my head I say my loves name ______ loves me !... My birthday is coming up November 30th and my dream is to be with love and reunited with all my friends and spend time with everyone and go out to an amazing birthday dinner
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Yes I agree as well When I first lost my love and for a long time after I voiced that I wanted him back and would do anything so many people were negative and all that negativity made it even worse. There are a lot of people who have no understanding of LOA and don't get it so I will also say don't talk about it to people you are not positive will be supportive of you You will get your wish but you cant let the naysayers creep in and ruin your vibrations People are well meaning but don't get it
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Remember that a majority of people operate unconsciously, and from a really low vibration. They create by default. So your positivity probably seems absolutely bonkers to others. Don't share your vision.. Keep it to yourself or talk about it here, where we are all as cray cray as you 😜
Seriously though, from an outsider looking in, the way LOA'ers handle things is completely bizarre and WISHFUL (how many times have I heard that lol.) That's ok, everyone is entitled to their own viewpoint. But I won't ever be allowing ANYONE to create in MY reality. I know what I want, I imagine it, I visualise it, I raise my vibration, I get it. Follow our lead here, and please completely ignore ANY advice that doesn't positively delight you 😘
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Thank you so much for the support everyone ! It just stinks when people bring up my love and I try to explain but I don't know what I should be telling them instead ..I want to abonish any negativity I have in my head forever it's hard but I keep trying everyday to retrain my mind to only think positive I don't know what else I can do to abonish negativity in myself about my situation
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I have a question should I try to physically try to fix things with my friends ? I really want to be with them on my birthday I'm getting anxious now because I'm alone and I don't want my birthday to be this way like it had for the last two years I don't know what next I can do my birthday is in two weeks.. I'm trying really hard to work towards my blessings and miracles
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Try imagine having a good time with your friends on your birthday. Imagine them saying happy bday to you, giving you gifts, cheering etc. how does that feel? Visualise this before you go to bed. Hold on to the feeling While falling asleep.
You may or may not need to do anything physically but whatever it is it should be inspired action/action that you would not have to question why you are doing this or whether it's an inspired action or not.
Rmb if you can imagine it it's there already. You just have to hold faith and believe in it and your physical world will shift to make your imagination true. Don't question when or how. Just know that it's there already. The moment you stop questioning when or how and know that it's yours like it's really yours that's when it will happen
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Sam wrote:
I think that when other people are negative about our desires it's because deep down we have a lingering fear that we can't manifest them back. You may believe 90% but not 100% yet. For example, I believe strongly my love and I will reunite and my friends all say "he'll be back" or "you guys are meant to be." Even my mom thinks he'll be back.
I would suggest not talking to anyone about your love anymore. Just keep it to yourself so there's no threat to your vibration. All those people will see when your love comes back that you were right.
So I wasn't talking about my love the other night when I was with my best friend but out of the blue she asked me if I had spoken to him lately and I said no not for a few weeks and then she asked if I loved him and I was honest and told her I did and she told me that she believes my story with him isn't over. And I've noticed other people have been asking me about him recently. I'm taking it as a sign from the universe because before none of them asked me about him and ever since I started RS and being happy and raising my vibration, they've begun asking me about him.
I've just focused on my happy feelings and thoughts about my guy and just staying positive and doing my RS and being grateful. If someone says anything negative, which they haven't yet, I will just change the subject because I'll get angry they're saying negative things and I don't want that to bring me down.
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Thank you I have been trying to visualize to the best of my ability .. I just start to get antsy and nervous especially since my birthday is in two weeks