Cherished,
Your posts are gold. They truly are. I have a few of your posts in my screenshot folder in case I ever need a pick up. Thanks for the beautiful reminder

Perfect!! Thanks Cherished!

I have more to say!  I just read a post where OP wishes to change places with ANYBODY,  because their situation is far worse than anything anybody else is going through.  Would you really want to change places with anybody? Because your situation is truly worse?  Seriously? You can't possibly know anybody else's story. My own journey started pretty badly, friends. For the purpose ONLY of offering some serious perspective, my life 3 years ago was NOT one that you would love to swap with. I was 8 months pregnant, with a husband incapable of loving me. I was a wreck from emotional abuse. I thought I was a nobody. I had no self esteem. I cried every day. My mother was dying from cancer. In fact she died in my arms, in my home.. And I missed her funeral because I was so distressed that my waters broke and I went into labour. I was alone in a hospital, unable to breastfeed due to mastitis and postnatal depression, and my family were not with me..  they were trying to handle a funeral, a wake, my mothers things, and the mess that comes with death.

Now, I say this not for sympathy or empathy or attention.  I say it because NO situation is impossible.  And in the grand scheme of things, is it REALLY the end of the world because you are temporarily blocked on FB? I there is SO much more to life than spending day after day in anger and misery over a guy or girl who isn't cooperating with you. You can change ANYTHING! I have changed every relationship in my life.. All of them. I met my guy after my abusive relationship ended. That ended up such a mess! But you can see why, my story was miserable!! But now we are back, and better than ever. I used to be bulimic. I'm now preparing to get up on stage for my first bodybuilding competition.
I used to have no money at all. But my mind became FULL of ideas and inspiration, my imagination ran WILD and it still does, with all of the incredible adventures I wish to embark upon. I want for nothing these days, because everything comes to me. I have more money now than I ever need, I have wonderful family and friends. I don't grieve for my mother, I celebrate the magic of energy with her every single day, and in fact I am closer to her now than I ever was while she was physically present. My job is fabulous, easy, breezy. My children are absolutely Heavenly. They are creators of magnificence! And I learn from them every day. I take time to nurture my soul. I know that I am beautiful inside and out. I stand barefoot in the sand, or the grass, and I feel absolutely alive and connected to source energy. I sit under my favourite tree, and I listen. And I hear so many things. And I harness that incredible energy of nature. And I love. I LOVE people and places and objects and everything I can see, smell, taste, touch, hear. I dance to my favourite music, I immerse myself in books that make my spine tingle. I enjoy every morsel of food, I blow a kiss to every sunset, and walk outside each night simply to stare at the stars.. And to feel the utter perfection of the universe we live in. We are SO LUCKY TO BE HERE.

It doesn't matter WHAT your story is. Look how crap mine was! It was the crappest of crap! I bet you can't even beat it! But I did beat it. I rewrote my ENTIRE story, I changed my WHOLE life. And now I am a deliberate creator who is sculpting my body, my mind, my world. I so want everyone to be inspired to do the same. Nothing is impossible. EVERYTHING is changeable. There is nothing you cannot do or be or have, if you will only do the work. And the work is to learn to love. Learn unconditional love. And love everything and everybody so much that they just cannot help but fall in love with you too 💖

Hi love, thank you for your wonderful words. I can't thank you enough for all your wisdom and help. 

There's so much truth in your post. We need to be reminded every single day to choose and follow love because this truly is the magnificent and all-encompassing answer to everything. 

Losing a huge part of me did lead me to myself, and out of my unconscious and unmindful lifestyle. I am a work in progress, and it takes a conscious effort to remind myself to always choose love. You will never be lost if you choose love.  If we choose love moment by moment every single day, we'll never be un-whole again. 

Cherished wrote:

I have more to say!  I just read a post where OP wishes to change places with ANYBODY,  because their situation is far worse than anything anybody else is going through.  Would you really want to change places with anybody? Because your situation is truly worse?  Seriously? You can't possibly know anybody else's story. My own journey started pretty badly, friends. For the purpose ONLY of offering some serious perspective, my life 3 years ago was NOT one that you would love to swap with. I was 8 months pregnant, with a husband incapable of loving me. I was a wreck from emotional abuse. I thought I was a nobody. I had no self esteem. I cried every day. My mother was dying from cancer. In fact she died in my arms, in my home.. And I missed her funeral because I was so distressed that my waters broke and I went into labour. I was alone in a hospital, unable to breastfeed due to mastitis and postnatal depression, and my family were not with me..  they were trying to handle a funeral, a wake, my mothers things, and the mess that comes with death.

Now, I say this not for sympathy or empathy or attention.  I say it because NO situation is impossible.  And in the grand scheme of things, is it REALLY the end of the world because you are temporarily blocked on FB? I there is SO much more to life than spending day after day in anger and misery over a guy or girl who isn't cooperating with you. You can change ANYTHING! I have changed every relationship in my life.. All of them. I met my guy after my abusive relationship ended. That ended up such a mess! But you can see why, my story was miserable!! But now we are back, and better than ever. I used to be bulimic. I'm now preparing to get up on stage for my first bodybuilding competition.
I used to have no money at all. But my mind became FULL of ideas and inspiration, my imagination ran WILD and it still does, with all of the incredible adventures I wish to embark upon. I want for nothing these days, because everything comes to me. I have more money now than I ever need, I have wonderful family and friends. I don't grieve for my mother, I celebrate the magic of energy with her every single day, and in fact I am closer to her now than I ever was while she was physically present. My job is fabulous, easy, breezy. My children are absolutely Heavenly. They are creators of magnificence! And I learn from them every day. I take time to nurture my soul. I know that I am beautiful inside and out. I stand barefoot in the sand, or the grass, and I feel absolutely alive and connected to source energy. I sit under my favourite tree, and I listen. And I hear so many things. And I harness that incredible energy of nature. And I love. I LOVE people and places and objects and everything I can see, smell, taste, touch, hear. I dance to my favourite music, I immerse myself in books that make my spine tingle. I enjoy every morsel of food, I blow a kiss to every sunset, and walk outside each night simply to stare at the stars.. And to feel the utter perfection of the universe we live in. We are SO LUCKY TO BE HERE.

It doesn't matter WHAT your story is. Look how crap mine was! It was the crappest of crap! I bet you can't even beat it! But I did beat it. I rewrote my ENTIRE story, I changed my WHOLE life. And now I am a deliberate creator who is sculpting my body, my mind, my world. I so want everyone to be inspired to do the same. Nothing is impossible. EVERYTHING is changeable. There is nothing you cannot do or be or have, if you will only do the work. And the work is to learn to love. Learn unconditional love. And love everything and everybody so much that they just cannot help but fall in love with you too 💖

This is so inspiring to read. Seeing how much you have developed from such a low point in your life is just so motivational. Anyone can do it. Nobody actually knows anybody elses story or whats happened in their life previously. I myself dont like repeating my story and the depression i suffered without knowing for many years which was the cause of my breakup. There is an endless number of things I can moan/complain about my past but i choose not too. I am in the process of rewriting my story, page by page and that is exactly what i am focusing on. I have learnt so much from you Cherished and I am truly grateful to you chosing to share your knowledge and experience with everyone here. It is hugely helpful. You have done incredibily well and i hope you continue achieving all your desires ❤️😊