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Jenny · 10/28/2015 1:42 pm

Hello!
This forum is great. All the girls here are so nice!

But I need a little of courage from you. I want my ex boyfriend back. It's been 5 months since we broke up (he did it) and I keep non contact during the 5 months until yesterday. He texted me 5 days ago and I didn't reply back until yesterday. He only said hi and he wanted me to be ok but that was all. He didn't ask how I was. I don't think he wanted to have a conversation so I replied with the same Short hi and wished him well.
Then I blocked him on whatsapp because I felt like an idiot. I am not going to unblock him because I want him to make an effort to call me or come to my house. Is it possible to achieve that when he's blocked?
What do I do? I give up? I cant fight anymore I'm tired, I don't think it's going to work for me. I am going crazy because one day I say to myself I give up and next I want to believe I can have him back? The think is I want to stop this obsession.
sorry english isn't my first lenguague

Ivy · 10/28/2015 1:52 pm

After 5 months he contacted you and you blocked him lol. From my perspective you should be grateful for his response, he messaged you after 5 months that means he was missing you during this NC period. Sometimes things start slowly. Think positive about him, send your love to him and if you're damn sure to get him back...Do RS on him since he initiated..
If I were you, I would be over the moon lol.

Jenny · 10/28/2015 6:44 pm

Shy wrote:
After 5 months he contacted you and you blocked him lol. From my perspective you should be grateful for his response, he messaged you after 5 months that means he was missing you during this NC period. Sometimes things start slowly. Think positive about him, send your love to him and if you're damn sure to get him back...Do RS on him since he initiated..
If I were you, I would be over the moon lol.

Sorry, I know I sound pretentious or something but I am torn between want him (use loa to be together) or get over him (use loa to find another person)

kizikay · 10/28/2015 7:07 pm

We all get that feeling from time to time I guess, so there's nothing pretentious about it, but you are the only one who can make a decision. If you can't make your mind at all, I would say just see what state you tend to spend more time in: wanting him back or wanting someone new. It probably also will be a state you feel more positive and comfortable about. Then concentrate on staying in that state.

Ivy · 10/29/2015 4:21 am

Jenny wrote:
Shy wrote:
After 5 months he contacted you and you blocked him lol. From my perspective you should be grateful for his response, he messaged you after 5 months that means he was missing you during this NC period. Sometimes things start slowly. Think positive about him, send your love to him and if you're damn sure to get him back...Do RS on him since he initiated..
If I were you, I would be over the moon lol.

Sorry, I know I sound pretentious or something but I am torn between want him (use loa to be together) or get over him (use loa to find another person)

Don't be . It happened with me too.
Kizikey is right, first decide what you really want to have...

Cherished · 10/29/2015 4:24 am

Shy wrote:
After 5 months he contacted you and you blocked him lol. From my perspective you should be grateful for his response, he messaged you after 5 months that means he was missing you during this NC period. Sometimes things start slowly. Think positive about him, send your love to him and if you're damn sure to get him back...Do RS on him since he initiated..
If I were you, I would be over the moon lol.

This is great advice! Do this 😊

barbidoll · 10/29/2015 6:12 am

Jenny after 5 months he sends you a txt he worked for it ! He made the first move!! I would give anything for that Blocking him is blocking him in your subconcious You need to have a long talk with yourself and decide what you want mixed emotions will give you mixed results or worse a negative mess! In my mind ( I could be wrong but....) He got up the courage to txt you tested the water with a Hi you respond by blocking him on another media source If you want him open the door wide REMOVE all obsticles for communication Teeth I would give for that txt you got or if its just pride that makes you want him figure that out too

kizikay · 10/29/2015 7:49 am

Yeah, I will be over the moon too, when I get a text :-) lots of people here wud be

Unveiled Miracles · 10/29/2015 10:11 am

Hi

You can for sure get him back! In fact he can come begging for you! The LOA is always working, so just how you are using it to keep him away, you can use it to attract him back.

Start taking the power out of his court, bring the power back to you. Start to see yourself as someone whom is incredible, worthy and desirable! Put yourself on a pedastol and put energy into creating the best life possible for yourself

Then you can start to visualize your ideal relationship with this man. All obstacles can be overcome and he will contact you despite you blocking him. However, I would advise unblocking him. Energetically you are opening up to him again, so you do not want to block him! Imagine him treating you in all the ways you desire! You can create this and you are in the right place to find how to

Blessings,
Julie- Love and Happiness Coach

Debbie · 10/29/2015 11:35 am

For goodness sake, unblock him now!

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