Hello lovely Sanshi, 
I'm sorry to read this post. I personally have always enjoyed your posts, opinions and advice, but we're not all the same of course.
I think one can always learn something, even when they think they've reached a point where they know everything. You never get it done, as they say. Moreover, especially on the subject of LOA it's very nice to have discussions with others in order to expand and deepen the understanding of it. And a forum is the perfect place to do so. But of course that's just my opinion.
I also think that people who misunderstand and then insult (or whatever, I didn't really get what happened) are just on a different wave length and if one doesn't feel like helping them, then just ignore them. Works every time ;)

Anyway, if that is your decision, of course it's good. Whatever feels best to you is good. But I hope you'll be back soon with new amazing and inspiring words for all of us and yourself as well.

Lots and lots of love to you. x 

Sanshi, please don't go!  

I remember I mentioned in another forum wanting to leave, and you so nicely asked me not to. I was moved to tears by your kindness, I truly was.

 I just find that you are such a good person and so important here. As well as benefitting from your replies, I have found you to be a good friend here who I can confide in and I really do so value the support you have given me.

You are just the most lovely human being and we need people like you here to keep the vibe up that this place is known for.

Hoping that you reconsider and stay. 

 

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

I leave the forum, because I got personally attacked in a unfair and completely unnecessary way, not because someone misinterpreted my post.

I saw that she first thought you were being sarcastic and then she accused you of bullying her and being condescending. Maybe I'm missing something or missing another post, but I just thought she was extra sensitive or something and took things the wrong way. Sorry you had to go through that.

I think most people didn't see what happened, because Cherished was very quickly and deleted the thread after that. But it doesn't matter anymore. No need to talk about it further. Everything is fine again.

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

2. I could throw up everytime I read the word EX.

I know, it makes me sick too lol. Even the more positive posts on here still have "ex" in it. But it's Veronica's Forum and she's famous for ex-back stuff so this forum will probably forever be filled with sad, ex focused posts because it attracts the people in that stage. Try Reddit Law of Attraction and Inward Quest, they're not ex-back heavy, it's more positive, and there's a wealth of info there I've learned a lot from.

I will check it out, thanks for the tip. I really like the abeforum at the moment.

frannitea wrote:

I think one can always learn something, even when they think they've reached a point where they know everything. You never get it done, as they say. Moreover, especially on the subject of LOA it's very nice to have discussions with others in order to expand and deepen the understanding of it. And a forum is the perfect place to do so. But of course that's just my opinion.

Yes, of course. I didn't want to say that I got this whole LoA thing completely. It's more that this forum feels for me like elementary school. I know the basics, now I have to move further and apply them. And I'm again a complete beginner at this. But other places are more useful for me to learn that than this forum, if that makes sense.

tessy wrote:

I dont know what to say....u have been the reason for me to be here....u even responded to all my PM's....why do we write to u instead of Veronica???

Because it's free?

This is wonderful news Sanshi, I'm so glad you have decided to stay as I love reading your empowering replies that help many people understand and implement LoA.  And yes, sometimes, it can be tiredness or stress that causes reactions and life is all about learning about ourselves and our responses to things/people etc.  Anyway, I'm so glad you're here! Hugs x

Sanshi wrote:

CR was right of course, when he said that it happened because of my own vibration [I came to this conclusion by myself btw].

LOL The funny part is...I'm not even a big believer in "you attract everything with your vibration." I was just giving your own advice back to you ;).

Sanshi wrote:

It's easy to sit at home alone and feel good, but that's not real life. There are always other people around and it's impossible to only observe things that are pleasing. So it's better to learn to handle it.

Yeah, that's usually how I think....but I like how Stingray on Inward Quest describes it: every time you're out of your happy place it's all just a thrilling journey to enjoy on the road back. Often when I see a depressing post on a forum I'll think "Yeah, you're just having a whine and a moan. Next week you'll feel positive again and write something else," so it's like there's beauty in all the shifting between depressing and joyful posts on here. But of course, depressing posts can get overwhelming and that's why we all need breaks sometimes. The big thing is to be aware of your thoughts and feelings, take care of yourself first. It sounds like you're having a "growth spurt"...after feeling down in the contrast, you've realized a desire to learn more that you can't find here...and I felt the same way which is why I ventured out and kept a notebook of all the things I was learning and applying.