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Re: I just don't get it
But it's not actually about how you look. People don't find you beautiful because you look a particular way. They adore you because of the ENERGY you exude. Aside from hair and nails, what do you at least like about yourself? Are you compassionate? Kind? Do you make a great friend? Are you trustworthy? Honest? What is it that makes you uniquely YOU?!
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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thank you.. Yes I do as well like my name.
So what do I like about me.
I like my hair, i like my sense of humor, I'm a good friend, I like that I don't have to wear a lot of makeup to be pretty, i am a very good worker and I always end up being one of the best at any job I do. I like my style of clothing, I'm really good at home decorating. I like that I want to make people feel good. I would give anyone the shirt off my back, I genuinely care about people. I am passionate. i do think I'm a good person.
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I do like that I am honest and most definitely loyal. I don't have the highest confidence in the world, so that is definitely something I need to work on
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So there are many things that make you a wonderful person. You must begin to focus on these qualities and develop some confidence in yourself. It comes with time and through affirming the things that you already DO love about yourself. Once you practice pondering all the great qualities you already possess, LOA will bring you more to admire and appreciate- and therein lies the beginning of positive momentum.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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I know you're right.. Everything you ever say is right.. And sometimes when I'm feeling down, like right now and I acknowledge where I really am on this journey it just makes it feel so much more out of reach. I know it'll be worth it in the end.. I just wish I was further along than I am
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That's only shooting yourself in the foot! There are so many better ways to think of that. Really try to see this process in action. You say "it's really out of reach, I want to be further along.. " BUT I say "How grateful are you, to be on the cusp of your most magnificent life? To have stumbled upon LOA, to have discovered that your thoughts create your reality."
Can you try focus wheels? There are threads somewhere-ill look.
It's about acknowledging that the thought you hold is making you feel crappy. And really focussing to shift that thought to something even slightly more comfortable. What about "ok, I'm at the bottom of the ladder. But I'm ever so grateful that I HAVE a ladder. All I have to do is learn to climb. One foot in front of the other. I know I can do it, I'm so proud of myself for taking control of my life like this. This truly is the first day of the rest of my life."
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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I have wandered what and how to do a focus wheel.. I am currently listening to "ask and it is given" everyday when I go for a walk, but I haven't got to that part yet. So yes ibwould definitely try
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Focus wheels
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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iinikkii wrote:
I know you're right.. Everything you ever say is right.. And sometimes when I'm feeling down, like right now and I acknowledge where I really am on this journey it just makes it feel so much more out of reach. I know it'll be worth it in the end.. I just wish I was further along than I am
As Cherised pointed out LOA is in your life, it's not something you can switch off and on. When you value what the fundamental basis of LOA which is whatever you focus on you attract more of, you then understand that from where you stand right now you can change what you want and what you bring into your live.
So right now you want love, so focus on love. And the first place you need to focus that love is to yourself. You have to immerse yourself in love. Appreciate yourself. Be proud of yourself. Be your own cheerleader.
Affirmations are great but first you have to phrase them correctly and secondly they take time. Imagine that for the past how many years you have repeated a thought to yourself which is now a well formed belief. You can not expect to say an affirmation for a few days and you will instantly transform. They work with repetition and with action in your daily life that reinforces what you are affirming.
It is a journey and sometimes it feels like you aren't going anyway, but keep at it.
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Yes I think I will be practicing this more often.. I of course did it on him. :/ but oh well I'll do another one..
I started with I'm never going to be able to get mb back
*I am glad that I found out about loa and that I can control my thoughts
*there are a lot of people who have got their ex back. I being one of them. I did attract him back before
*if other people can do it I can too
*this is my time to work on being a better me
*i am feeling better and better all the time
*source knows what I want, and source wants me to have it
*the past doesn't have anything to do with where I'm going now
*i didn't know then what I know now, now that I know things can start to change
*i am figuring this out
*i believe that I should always get what I want
*i like the idea of a fresh start to our relationship. The Best me ALWAYS attracts him to me
And in the middle I ended with
I know we will be together soon
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Thread StarterVeronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com