| Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Need guidance » 7/08/2021 1:16 am |
- Cynthia
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sadman wrote:Alright, it's time to let go of this whole SP thing. l love her, don't think I will forget her, she's my lovely wife and we spent the best honey moon ever in barbados, it feels like she's my wife but it feels like we are going thru a weird temporary separation right now. Not having my wife's support at this moment feels weird.
Letting go hurts, but holding on hurts more. I hope I can use what I learned to manifest some happiness in another way.
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If you had really learnt what you need to know in your attempt to have the relationship with your SP, WHICH IS THE SAME PRINCIPLE FOR EVERYTHING, you wouldn't even be thinking about giving up. You already said that you'd never consciously manifested a thing. The first thing I ever said to you was when did you decide you'd failed? How do you know that you didn't do enough to plant the seed of your desire in your subconscious mind and that it will manifest in its own time? Now you are constantly negating it, but it is you deciding that you've failed. There is nothing and nobody against you but you.
You seem to have set some sort of a time limit by which it had to happen or it never would and have probably been continuously aware that it hasn't happened yet which is only going to delay it. Where did you get the idea that there is a time limit?
I'm interested to know who you have been listening to and what they have been telling you to do that has given you ideas that make you think you've failed. If you had been reading and listening to Neville and following his advice only and not been distracted by some loa people who talk a lot of rubbish and can easily mess you up, I don't think you'd be so ready to give up.
One of Neville's big things was persistence. Check out his lecture Brazen Impudence. You have to be clear on exactly what you want, focus on it, live in the end of having it, assume that it is yours, be patient, have faith, and persist until it is yours in the 3D. The current 3D is
| Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Need guidance » 7/06/2021 12:53 am |
- Cynthia
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Don't kill yourself. I feel depressed too sometimes, and I have been so deeply depressed in the past that I felt the same way. That's one thing that law of attraction has got completely wrong, and there are other fallacies. There is no comparison between law of attraction and law of assumption. You don't have to feel good. You don't have to feel happy. You don't have to pump yourself up and attempt to 'raise your vibration.' Law of attraction has tripped many people up because so much of what is said about it is untrue.
The law of assumption is the one that works all the time, consciously or unconsciously, but not necessarily fast. In my first reply to you, I said that some of my manifestations have taken years. I know that is true of other people as well because they have said so.You're using it right now, but you're using it against yourself. Nobody can switch it off, but you can learn to use it effectively to your advantage or not.
I remember telling you what you can do to change your situation, and it didn't include ignoring anything. It doesn't have to take forever or even take a very long time, but it's not a quick fix, especially when you are in such a negative frame of mind. This focus on time has come up several times now. That's a problem right there.
I don't even understand why you would feel like a beggar begging for scraps. Whom would you be begging? Some external god? The universe? There is no universe outside yourself. Your subconscious mind is the universe. This is about learning how powerful you are and harnessing that power to consciously create your life and circumstances.
I thought you told me you had read Neville's books, but who have you been listening to?, it can't have been him.
I was on the verge of offering you some private help, but I don't think you would be receptive.
| Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Need guidance » 7/05/2021 3:33 pm |
- Cynthia
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sadman wrote:
I don't really have anything to say at the moment, I ran out of words. I don't want to give up, but I feel broken. Just posting to acknowledge the replies, thank you.
Cynthia is cool.
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Thank you. I've never been called that before.
Forget about everything you've ever heard about law of attraction. So much of that is untrue nonsense. Forget about those books and youtube videos that tell you that you can do something, especially get an ex back or have a certain relationship, in hours or days or any amount of time. Don't even get me started on that subject. They are doing that for their own gain and enrichment, and it's irresponsible and unkind and based on the instant expectations of today's internet/automated society, and is usually preying on the hopeless and desperate. All of those youtube videos who claim instant results of getting the relationship of their dreams in their title are lying to get your attention, and maybe just outright lying. The legitimate, non-scam ones I've seen have never had instant results, they have all been doing the work for a certain period of time, and different times for everyone.
We're virtually all brought up to react to the world around us, think it's just fate or something that has nothing to do with us, and then taught to try to change things overtly by doing things to try to manipulate the situation directly. That is all backwards to what is really going on, and to change our thinking to the opposite after years, a lifetime, is going to take a bit of time, and I'm using British understatement, which means it could take more than a bit.
Our thoughts create what is going on outside us. It all comes from within. We are creating our own reality but nobody ever tells us that because they don't know that either. Everybody is you pushed out, which means that they will act in the ways you expect.They don't have any choice. They have no free will in your reality.
The law of assumption is working all o
| Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Need guidance » 6/25/2021 11:16 pm |
- Cynthia
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sadman wrote:
I just wanted help and to make this work somehow. I have tried with multiple things, yet nothing seems to work. I have had 0 successes with this up to this point, and I have tried for a long time, with multiple things, small and big. It breaks me because from the first Neville book I readed, I was filled with hope. Something just clicked, and I knew somewhere in my heart that all of it was true. I feel like I can't ask for help online because anything that doesn't conform to the "it's working/worked" narrative just gets instantly deleted everywhere.
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I did think that up to my last post I was doing things right, I had good dreams about it, thought loving thoughts, felt good about it, knew it was a done deal.I just knew it was done and it was mine, opposing thoughts were kept to a minimum, as much as a flawed human being can do. But after so long believing and persisting, it's really difficult to keep going and believing when nothing shows up for it time and time again. I kept going this long without reacting and doing things right, or at least I thought I did. But how long can you keep the faith and believe when it keeps failing? I wasn't saying it was failing before, I wasn't reacting, but time broke me.
Honestly, this is just making me more depressed and breaking my heart, not just the SP thing but the whole LOA business. Every little thing I tried just becomes hope that turns into the despair of nothingness. I know most people in the community that read my post will just jump to me saying its not working so ofc it isn't, or that I'm reacting to the 3d, but I have to be honest with where I am right now. I kept up the faith as much as I could, but I honestly feel like I'm running out of time and don't know what to do next, because I followed all advice yet nothing works. I feel like my own soul is starting to break down and refusing to act after all of this.
I do appreciate your help though Cynthia, I really do, you might have been the only
| Immediate Alignment Stickies 💖 » Do you know who you really are? How to manifest like a boss! » 6/19/2021 12:21 pm |
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| Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Need guidance » 6/10/2021 3:18 am |
- Cynthia
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The object of any method or 'technique' is to impress your subconscious mind with the belief that you have your desire now. This has to happen before your desire is outpictured on the screen of space, meaning it becomes a fact in your external experience, sometimes called the 3D. The subconscious cannot tell the difference between what is real and what is imagined. Persistence is extremely important. So is repetition. If you are not having results, you may want to try something different to try to convince your subconscious. You may not have to. You may just need more persistence and repetition.
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You made an earlier comment about not wanting to overdo affirmations and intentions due to the law of reversed effort. That has nothing to do with this. You cannot overdo them. You don't have to believe them, they are just another method to use to programme your subconscious mind, and maybe that is something you need to do more of before you give up. Put your focus and concentration on each one as you read or say them. Don't rush through them. Say them like you mean them.
I find it very helpful to write letters to myself from a person, it doesn't have to be an SP, having the person tell me everything I want to hear from them, and then reading the letter over and over again. I usually read it once through 3 times a day, focussing on it as with affirmations, but you could do it more. I also have inner conversations with a person, anyone, it doesn't have to be an SP. Time shouldn't even cross your mind. Time doesn't matter, and it is not helpful to think of how much time has passed. It takes as long as it takes, and nobody knows how long that will be.
Also, your username is in conflict with your goal, and I couldn't help but notice that when I first saw your earlier post. It's a negative thing to call yourself and could be having a negative psychological impact on you that you don't even realise. You're manifesting 24/7 anyway, so you might as well focus on what you want. H
| Ex/Specific Person Discussion » question about signs » 4/29/2021 1:53 pm |
- Cynthia
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| Ex/Specific Person Discussion » question about signs » 4/28/2021 8:28 pm |
- Cynthia
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I stand by my reply to one of your previous posts. I have read your other ones and have this to add.
Letting go does not mean letting go of your desire. It means dropping the old story and what appears to be going on in the 3D and all of the fears, doubts, and negativity that are standing in the way and keeping you from the fulfilment of your desire.
Trying to manifest a text message is living in the end of getting a text message, not living in the end of having the relationship you say you want, and is a separate manifestation that has nothing to do with whether or not you end up with the relationship, whereas when you live in the end of having the relationship, there has to be some sort of contact between you. Trying to manifest a text message can also be a way of messing with the middle, if you are doing that as a step by step plan you think is going to end you up with the relationship.
If you are looking for signs, you don't believe that your thoughts create and you aren't living in the end.
I'm not surprised you got blocked.
Here is a quote from Neville's lecture 'Christ Bears Our Sins':
You can put God to the test, and if He proves himself in the testing then you will know God is your own wonderful human imagination. If you want the joy of marriage, a love affair, or a romance, you can test God by assuming the one you desire is with you now. And to the degree you persist in that assumption, it will be yours to experience. Do not be concerned as to how or when it will happen; simply persist in the assumption that it has happened, and when it does you will know who God is.
| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Numerology past life Karma clash with LoA? » 3/21/2021 2:06 pm |
- Cynthia
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You are the only creator in your reality. In some way you created the numerology/karma reading and everything that came out of it.
You've said it yourself. You've accepted life to be one of modesty and tougher times. You've created that as well. You can either continue to believe that and create more of it for yourself or you can decide to create what you really want for yourself. There's nothing wrong with or selfish about having a good life and nothing to feel guilty about.
I know how difficult it can be, having had the most negative, oppressive father on the face of the earth, being a captive audience to his constant ranting and raving and complaining about lack and limitation day in and day out for years and years, and then on top of that having Catholicism, in my case, holding up poverty, chastity, and obedience as some sort of gold standard of the way to live, when that was all manmade in the first place. It's been my life's work to overcome this, and it is something I have to continue to work on.
I am a big fan of Neville because his teachings are simple, effective, and without limitations and have been a good antidote to my upbringing. It almost makes me laugh when I think of Neville talking about the law of assumption and how backwards my father had it when he used to write out the word assume and divide it into sections.
| Please Read Before Posting » Law of Attraction » 3/04/2021 7:36 pm |
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I'm a big fan of Neville's, and he was really law of assumption. Below are his main teachings.
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Imagining creates reality.
You are the operant power. It doesn't operate itself.
Live in the end of the wish fulfilled, which means you go straight to the end of having your desire in your imagination and dwell there with no concerns of how it will happen and think from the perspective of already having your desire. Feel it real, the way you would feel if you already had your desire.
The law of assumption. What you assume consistently will become true over time.
Your thoughts create, for good or ill, so maintain a mental diet of the thoughts you want to become true and eliminate the negative.
Everyone is you pushed out, meaning other people are affected by what you think of them or expect of them. They have no free will in your reality and will do and say what you expect, for good or ill. It doesn't have to be what you expect of a specific person, it can also be what you expect of people or men or women in general or what you think you deserve or the way you expect to be treated.
What you experience in the 3D, the outside world, is in some way being created by your own thoughts/imaginal acts, so it is pointless to try to directly manipulate the 3D by outward actions when it is your own thoughts that are creating and keeping the 3D going. As Neville said, that is to struggle against the very nature of things. You are the only creator in your reality.
Persistence is important. Consistency is important. Faith is important.
Below are links to some recordings by Neville that take less than an hour to listen to.
The Secret of Imagining
How to Use Your Imagination
Mental Diets
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