Alycat1110 wrote:

IlunaMeisu wrote:

We actually can, we are all connected whatever you see in them, you will get it reflected back you know? And whenever you feel exhausted, take a step back and give yourself some self love my dear.

That is funny! I might be your sign too haha! Just believe it is done and now receive.


The old relationship is dead so you want a new and better relationship with your person. Live in the end result.

I am grateful to say that we are still in a relationship, so I am desiring to make our relationship more like it was previously this year (it was so full of love and happiness) and less about the old fears and things that have followed us for so long and plague the relationship. As of late I have been creating our relationship from a far while we have had minimal interactions; but still good ones. I am falling back in love with LOA and the role that i can be responsible for in our relationship and I know that when I am the best version of myself, it is not long that he comes wanting all of the great things our relationship has to offer.  my vibe is slowly getting higher and higher and i feel better. btw, i'm a Taurus and my love is a Sagittarius. 

I'm so happy things are looking up for you! Send some of that luck my way? Haha! But in all seriousness, in really happy things are looking up for you

That's depression. I'm heading into work but I can write more later.

Ooh I like this!

1) I'm a good-looking guy
2) I play guitar
3) My personality is tops
4) I'm actually a really good guy, who would never cheat and will always be loyal (Just adding this because I've been on reddit and I just read way too many things about guys "just wanting sex" or "being prone to cheating", etc.) 
5) I like pie. 

Seeker wrote:

I don't think there is a one size fits all way to do the NC thing.  My x is stubborn and needed a nudge.  I didn't bring up relationship stuff.  We are still communicating....no one has asked anyone else for a meetup but I believe it will happen.....

It sounds to me like you needed to stick up for yourself.  Don't torture yourself over the past.

God I wish I knew how to get from where I am now to where you are. Either way, congrats! You can do this!

Selfloveiskey wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

Lifesagas wrote:

You WERE that creepy and i'm sorry but it's true. When someone you dated briefly sends you hundreds of messages and you try to placate them and they carry on so you tell them you hate them and will take out a restraining order and they carry on...

And then they send you a gift of a cuddly toy and a rose and a CD of love songs including one you wrote about them and pictures. Why would you think that isn't creepy?

I think it was around that time Cherished banned you from here and you complained on other forums that Veronicas forum didn't want to help and Cherished had to go on them and say you were obsessed and exhibiting worrying tendencies.

The womans sister told you to f off and leave the family alone after the gift and almost 2 years later you're still trying to contact her and telling you you miss her.... A few weeks ago you were saying you wanted to set up a fake SM account to see if she is with someone else.

That IS frightening or 'creepy' as you say. It frightens me and i'm not the woman you're focused on.

I know it's not what you want to hear but I honestly believe you would have probably moved on a long time before now if you weren't on all these forums.

I dated her for a good while. I wasn't as creepy as you're making me out to be. I'm sure I was 'creepish', but I wasn't THAT creepy... We've known each other for years even before dating. And 2 years later I'm not trying to contact her. I've contacted her like... once or twice within the past year, probably. Maybe 3 times. And what is SM? I don't remember saying that? I remember saying when I was in a low spot that I was contemplating looking at her profile using my secondary/fake account, which isn't too creepy. Many people find that they want to look at their ex's profiles. I believe you're heavily overemphasizing and over-exaggerating my "creepiness" toward her. You only know what I've been saying and you're filling in the rest with your f

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