Help me align please... π » I need help » 9/07/2018 8:00 pm |
excalibar wrote:
Aquilina wrote:
excalibar wrote:
Well nothing at the moment except for making the manifestation happen faster which I do believe I can do. I want him to take me out in a genuine date this month, not because he wants to get in pants but because he has feelings for me and wants to be with me.I used to subconsciously believe I was good for nothing more than sex, and so I attracted nasty superficial behaviour from men for a long time. Maybe there are some beliefs similar to that that brought this situation on in the first place, with him behaving in the way you expected. Maybe there was a deeper reason that you believed that he would behave that way that was based on the way you see yourself rather than the way you see him. Obviously that might not apply but that's just an example from my own experience.
How can I change the way I believe about myself in that way for him to treat me like a goddess?
I am figuring that out as well for myself. Have you heard of the mirror technique? I've been doing that. But also been exploring the barriers within myself to being my true self and being that Goddess person. Just dissolving all of that and sort of purifying my consciousness. I plan to do visualizations about my ideal self as well as ones about me with my SP. So I have mirror technique, visualization, generally discovering any other beliefs that could be in the way, and apart from that I'm finding my feet still, but the visualization must be the most powerful way to change the self image.
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Help me align please... π » I need help » 9/07/2018 7:54 pm |
excalibar wrote:
Aquilina wrote:
excalibar wrote:
Than what must I do?About which thing? The thing over the summer? If it's that then where are you at with the situation, what parts do you need help with?
ΒWell nothing at the moment except for making the manifestation happen faster which I do believe I can do. I want him to take me out in a genuine date this month, not because he wants to get in pants but because he has feelings for me and wants to be with me.
I used to subconsciously believe I was good for nothing more than sex, and so I attracted nasty superficial behaviour from men for a long time. Maybe there are some beliefs similar to that that brought this situation on in the first place, with him behaving in the way you expected. Maybe there was a deeper reason that you believed that he would behave that way that was based on the way you see yourself rather than the way you see him. Obviously that might not apply but that's just an example from my own experience.
Help me align please... π » I need help » 9/07/2018 7:51 pm |
Check this out:
I have been coached by this guy, and I refer back to this article to keep myself in check. For example, when my SP was here I knew I was doing all of those things without trying which is why any time since that I've had doubts, I look through that, and I remember that I was being myself when I was with him, and that is what I'm aiming for now. I tell myself, those characteristics are generally seen as rare in women, and I agree, when you look at most people's behaviour in relationships, they are not doing and feeling the things he is talking about there. So I use that to remind myself of my greatness and all the reasons he knows he would have a great experience being in a relationship with me.
Yes, imagination and belief is what manifests. But the self love stuff will mean that you won't fall off the wagon again in future because you have a solid foundation. You cannot depend on another for happiness because it is like putting yourself in chains.
Law of Attraction Discussion » ASMR » 9/07/2018 7:19 pm |
I listened to that in the past but my mind was all over the place. Maybe I'll give it another go! Could be good to use alongside RS! If there are ones without people talking anyway.
Help me align please... π » I need help » 9/07/2018 7:16 pm |
excalibar wrote:
Aquilina wrote:
Training your mind, and also KNOWING that if you do what has to be done, it WILL manifest, because it's the LAW.
ΒThan what must I do?
About which thing? The thing over the summer? If it's that then where are you at with the situation, what parts do you need help with?
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Help me align please... π » I need help » 9/07/2018 7:12 pm |
oceanitrogen wrote:
I'm worried about one thing. This boy, my boy, is the love of my life. We're meant to be together. So it's impossible for anyone else to manifest him, right? You guys say anything js possible but I don't want everything t be possible because he's mine. He's the love of my life and we're soul mates. It shouldn't be possible for other people to manifes them. Does anyone know this?
Well, I personally stopped believing that anything in life is either meant to be or not meant to be. We are creating on a moment to moment basis depending on our dominant thoughts and feelings. All things are possible but let that give you power, knowing that no matter what, you have the power to manifest him. There isn't just one opportunity to get what you want, there isn't just one chance and if you miss it then it's game over. Life is constantly flexible. Every moment is a new opportunity to move in the direction of something that you want. Watch this clip again from Veronica's SP series:Β
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Help me align please... π » I need help » 9/07/2018 5:41 pm |
Training your mind, and also KNOWING that if you do what has to be done, it WILL manifest, because it's the LAW.
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All Challenges Here! πͺπΌπ » Scripting Challenge :) » 9/07/2018 5:32 pm |
I feel so relieved that I finally figured out why I've been attracting loud people with disruptive routines in nearly every place I've been living in. I thought to myself, enough is enough, something's going on here and I have to figure it out. I sat down and looked at what beliefs were behind this and finally it makes sense. I started visualizing having peace and calm, and the loud people moved out!
It's great to have normal sleeping habits at last. I'm able to get up early and get my work done, enjoy the afternoons spending time outside, with friends or whatever I want to do, and I have the evenings to myself to relax, meditate, visualize and get ready for sleep. I haven't had to play any nature sounds to drown out other noise for weeks! I can just lie in bed, knowing that I can rest and have a good eight hours of peaceful sleep...every night! It's a certainty now. It's not a luxury anymore, it's the new standard. It's feels SO good to just sit in my room in the evening, and have silence. It's so good to take back the power. And because I can be more organized now, I'm taking better care of myself. For example, I have more time to cook healthy meals. I'm making big progress with other goals such as my freelancing. I'm making more money than ever from bigger projects and soon will be able to move to a place of my own! Maybe it will be somewhere by the beach with views of the sea and some nice outdoor space :D
Help me align please... π » I need help » 9/07/2018 8:57 am |
"The vision has its own appointed hour, it ripens, it will flower. If it be long, then wait, it is sure and will not be late".
Help me align please... π » I need help » 9/06/2018 10:00 pm |
It sounds like you're doing everything well! I know what you mean about the images going distorted if you try to control them, doesn't sound crazy haha...just sort of have to let it happen.