Hi, I have been a member of this forum since June of 2016. I joined this forum to attract back my ex boyfriend who broke up with me. I was desperate I wanted him back so bad and I tried so hard to use the LOA correctly to attract him back. But ultimately, I was too depressed and heartbroken to stop restricting. Eventually, I stopped and I just let myself heal. Shortly after I met someone else and he seemed great but I had so much negative emotions and thoughts and our relationship got very bad very fast. He was extremely abusive and I stayed with him for 2 and a half years before finally leaving him last year. Now why am I telling you all this? well, when I was with this abusive boyfriend I decided to attempt to attract my ex back (not romantically) and within a week (after not speaking for YEARS) he reached out to me! He even asked to get coffee with me. We remained friends. I know this doesn’t seem significant but back when I was trying to attract him back any sort of communication felt impossible. Anyways, we remained friends and nothing romantically has happened between us and I actually would never date him again lol. Okay so fast forward to about 9 months ago, I had recently broken up with kg abusive boyfriend and I was feeling GOOD. I was free and so happy to be out of that relationship. A new man started working at my job. He was so freakin cute and I was smitten! I wanted him, I could sense that he was a loving person I could just feel it. Since I had no restrictions I spent about 3 weeks picturing myself with this guy and visualizing us being together and really feeling what it would be like to be together. Eventually, he asked me out and we completely fell in love. He is the softest, most patient, most incredible person I have ever known and I am so so happy. And this is the most exciting part! I shared my story with Veronica and she made a video about it. Here’s the link: https://youtu.be/CqacCkK_qk4 ....... so I’m here after all of these years to

just letting you all know we got a beautiful apartment and we move in this weekend!!!! i hope you’re all doing well. THANK YOU UNIVERSE!!!!

jenbeckley1992 wrote:

So how come you didn't get progress with getting your ex back but you managed to get someone else.
Did you stop wanting your ex back?

 
I just couldn't manage to stop resisting. Every time I thought of him I had awful thoughts. When I thought of someone new I had wonderful thoughts. I think it's possible to manifest your ex back just as long as you can stop resisting

UPDATE!!!
The day after I posted this I met an amazing guy!!!! He is so much better than my ex and he asked me out on a date! It happened so quickly I'm in awe.

Sanshi wrote:

The first important step is to get clear about what you want in a person. Then focus on the feeling of love, having the awesome relationship with that person and it will happen fast. I think the average time it took me to meet the new person after I got into the feeling place was three days.

 
Oh wow that's amazing! When you say get clear about what I want how do I do that? Make a list?and do you. Have any tips on getting into that feeling? I've been there before but struggle to get there and keep it.