This was something I was just thinking about so I figured why not post about it here?
When I first set out to manifest my specific person back I put 110% into getting him back into my life, it got to the point I was neglecting other things were in my life like my hobbies, the support groups I intended to attend, seeing my friends, seeking help for the conditions that are currently in my life. I also neglected myself and my living space.
Of course, I worked out over time that the more I forced myself to do something to get him back the more stressed I became.
I was also harbouring some insecurities that needed to be addressed, I felt ashamed of my living conditions and not so fun stuff like that.
I feel in some cases these things are the thing or one of the several things that block manifestations.
I'm not really sure how to end this post but hopefully, it can be of some use and help you figure out what you need to do for yourself.