So last night I found out something about this guy I dated back in high school for about a year. Let's call him R. So after we broke up, I was still friends with him. And then I met V (the guy I was trying to manifest back in my life, we have been together for three years)
Anywho, R still had a thing for me and he knows about LOA and all these RS slash rubbing out techniques... After we broke up, he had been doing RS on me(back in 2015)
He wanted V and I broken up cause apparently he was "in love" with me. I remember having weird thoughts and dreams about R, I even had a huge fight with V defending R, we almost broke up. But because my real with V has been based on actual and pure love, we sorted stuff out.
R got a new girlfriend and he forgot about me and I did not have any more dreams or weird thoughts about him(even though they say the effect lasts a lifetime)
I had been getting those thoughts and this urge to talk to R again, so last night when I reached out, he told me he had broken up with his girl and he wanted to get back with me so he had been doing RS on me.
I do not know if this is the right way to go about things but I was disgusted. I am sorry but I, in no way find it cute. It was creepy and heartbreaking at the same time to know that someone has been trying to break V and I apart.
According to R, he loves me so he thinks he's the only person who can keep me the happiest but it's like I don't even have a choice in this. So naturally I cut all ties with him and even when I have this urge to keep talking to him, I know what's been up and I am not going to talk to him ever again.
What do you guys think? I made the right call? It's kinda upsetting.