Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / What am I doing wrong?

**Posted by Iroquois** 4/27/2017 1:46 pm

Hey guys, so I've been studying alot of LOA, using affirmations, subliminals and focusing on myself alot. Working hard to make myself feel worthy of the relationship I want with the girl of my dreams.

I'd been going around in circles for a year, being afraid of her meeting someone else, to her actually seeing someone else, before her breaking up and me being fearful again. But this time I felt I had it. Felt really good and things were looking up, and now I just found out she IS seeing someone again.

Now I feel utterly defeated. I really felt this was it and now I feel like crap again and I'm back to square one

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 4/27/2017 1:56 pm

It sounds like you are going to be fearful whatever she does. Worried that if she's with someone this will be the one, then when that ends worrying about who the next guy will be and how they might turn out to be the one.

Why shouldn't the next guy be you?

And why have you not simply asked her out?

**Posted by Iroquois** 4/27/2017 2:30 pm

I originally asked her out over a year ago, but it turned out she was seeing someone at the time. I work with her sporadically so I see her often.

I know being afraid all the time is what's repelling the manifestation I want. The one good thing i suppose is that I've become good at manifesting a breakup

I guess I'm just tired and frustrated as I follow all the advice I get, and then this happens. I just don't want this to be the start of another 'circle', where I'll be back here 3 months from now saying the same thing