Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Advice needed

**Posted by aslana** 2/17/2021 9:04 am

Hello💕

ME and my boyfriend have been having problems for The most of our relationship and about a month ago he broke up with me. We have been seeing each other very often, have sex but we're not oficially together. I also have a lot of hatred and resentiment towards him because he treated me poorly. I still want to get him back and make our relationship The Best one but I hate him so much at The moment and he always says he's too busy to meet.

What can I do now? I am very dissapointed in him and heartbroken.

Lots of love and happy manifesting❤️😘

**Posted by Cynthia** 2/17/2021 9:29 am

Everybody is you pushed out, which means that they will do what you expect. You're creating this situation yourself. He's got no free will in your reality. If you want to change this situation, you've got to drop the old story, stop reacting, completely change your thoughts to the way you want things to be, and persist in keeping them changed until the situation changes in the external world.

**Posted by aslana** 2/17/2021 9:45 am

Well eversince we started The relationship i was sure it was going to fizzle but i was assured that i knew how to use Loa😅but did all The wrong things like being too needy.

Anyway, my question is if i should cut all contact with him until i change my thoughts? I am also afraid that he is going to find someone else and at that point i will not want a relationship with him.

**Posted by Cynthia** 2/17/2021 10:06 am

It doesn't matter either way. It depends on whether you can follow that mental diet of the new thoughts without reacting to the present situation. If you can block that out no matter what happens and maintain the mental diet, there's no reason why you can't see him or talk to him, but if you can't keep yourself from reacting, it would be better not to for awhile.

Don't even go there with thoughts of a third party. Your thoughts create your reality. You want to live in the end in your mind of having the ideal relationship with this person and think from the perspective of already having it.

Last edited by Cynthia (2/17/2021 10:07 am)

**Posted by aslana** 2/17/2021 4:54 pm

Well, we broke up for good, he said he doesn't love and to stop sending him texts because he caves în and responds. So i've decided to do The 25 day challenge. Wish me luck🥰❤️

**Posted by Cynthia** 2/17/2021 5:01 pm

I saw the message you deleted. You reacted. If you read this, go to the create your future channel on youtube and listen to the coaches there. They specialise in getting SPs back. Some SPs have done and said what yours has done. It doesn't matter. They turned it round with their mental diet. You have to be consistent and persistent, though.

Manifesting happens in the mind, not through outward actions.

**Posted by Cynthia** 2/17/2021 5:03 pm

aslana wrote:
Well, we broke up for good, he said he doesn't love and to stop sending him texts because he caves în and responds. So i've decided to do The 25 day challenge. Wish me luck🥰❤️

I wrote my message below to your deleted message, but I would say the same thing.

**Posted by aslana** 2/18/2021 9:29 am

I have been all day today doing meditations for self love, letting go of hurt and tried to change my mental diet. I feel like i have changed A LOT of the negative things (like The hatred. I took rensponsability and forgave myself for bringing this situation to reality) but it feels tiring, and I keep cheking my phone for texts from him. I am in resistance. Is it ok if i only do self love meditations and not think about him?

**Posted by Cynthia** 2/18/2021 11:10 am

I suggest that you take a break from trying to manifest the relationship for awhile and stop checking for texts from him or doing any other checking on him. Concentrate on your self concept and building up your self esteem for now until you feel better and stronger.

All you are going to do by engaging with the SP at the present moment when negative emotions are running so high is to make things worse by reacting.

I am personally a Neville proponent, but I also highly recommend listening to those coaches at create your future who specialise in SP success stories every single day. It might at least help calm you down because I can tell how upsetting this is for you.

**Posted by aslana** 2/18/2021 11:27 am

Ok. Thank you. We don't talk anymore, he told me to stop contacting him and I already umfriended him on social media to keep myself from stalking him.