Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / how to not check up on people that you are manifesting

**Posted by thelovercard** 10/29/2020 12:07 pm

hi all of you lovely people! I want to say I'm a bit new to this forum still so I'm sorry if I was supposed to write this question under a specific topic, I'm still a bit all over the place.

I've been manifesting someone back but some days I check up on them more on social media than others. I've been told it's something I shouldn't feel ashamed of, it just happens. but I was wondering if you guys had any advice not to check up on them? (i hope that makes sense) and because I still do sometimes (like 3 minutes ago) will that slow down my intent for coming in my reality? Thank you guys <3 I hope this made sense lol

**Posted by VeronicaAdmin** 10/29/2020 3:17 pm

Welcome to the forum :-)

I would suggest to remind yourself how you would act if you were in the relationship. Would you feel the need to check up on them? You want to emulate what it would be like to have this, hence the way you think, act and feel is very important.

Veronica xxoo

thelovercard wrote:
hi all of you lovely people! I want to say I'm a bit new to this forum still so I'm sorry if I was supposed to write this question under a specific topic, I'm still a bit all over the place.

I've been manifesting someone back but some days I check up on them more on social media than others. I've been told it's something I shouldn't feel ashamed of, it just happens. but I was wondering if you guys had any advice not to check up on them? (i hope that makes sense) and because I still do sometimes (like 3 minutes ago) will that slow down my intent for coming in my reality? Thank you guys <3 I hope this made sense lol

**Posted by Bernaditta** 11/05/2020 12:57 am

Hi all, wishing you a wonderful and successful day.
I'm new to this forum and I'm posting my messages here and there as I do not know the exact access of this forum.

Hopefully I'm posting my message here as I saw Veronica's response here.

Veronica Please make a video on these kind of SPs after reading my story below. May be helpful for people like me.

My SP sends fake love messages to me. Whenever he texts or calls I respond to it and then for sometime or some days he will not call and when I let go, again he will start texting and calling me. This is my current situation. Also I see him spending a long time now and then in WhatsApp. But seeing all these things I become silent and let go. But he will start pestering or blaming that I'm avoiding him. Hearing to this, if I again text him back he will never read my message even if he is online, he will make me wait for the whole day and then only he is responding.
AFTER LISTENING TO VERONICA'S VIDEOS I DON'T CONTACT HIM, HE ONLY CONTACTS ME, BUT WHEN I RESPOND TO HIM, HE IGNORES ME OR REMAINS SILENT TO MY RESPONSE AND HE KEEPS ON HURTING THE SAME WAY. IF I DON'T RESPOND HE BEGS FOR MY RESPONSE. ON AND OFF THIS IS WHAT HAPPENING.

VERONICA OR ANYONE ELSE PLEASE RESPOND WHAT SHOULD I DO IN THIS KIND OF SITUATIONS.

I requested him for a meeting. One year since we met. He is not ready because I told him that I want to check his phone as there was third party and he told me when he come to meet me, I can check, but not ready for the meeting. But says that he is very much in love with me and not even a single time I have experienced it. So many lies I found.

Next he said he will convey our relationship to his sister for getting help but had never said it.

HOPE I WILL GET HELP FROM SOMEONE HERE

THANKS AND REGARDS

Last edited by Bernaditta (11/05/2020 1:10 am)

**Posted by Cynthia** 2/02/2021 9:34 pm

thelovercard wrote:
hi all of you lovely people! I want to say I'm a bit new to this forum still so I'm sorry if I was supposed to write this question under a specific topic, I'm still a bit all over the place.

I've been manifesting someone back but some days I check up on them more on social media than others. I've been told it's something I shouldn't feel ashamed of, it just happens. but I was wondering if you guys had any advice not to check up on them? (i hope that makes sense) and because I still do sometimes (like 3 minutes ago) will that slow down my intent for coming in my reality? Thank you guys <3 I hope this made sense lol

Checking up on an SP you are trying to manifest a relationship with on social media is not only a very bad and counterproductive idea, but it doesn't 'just happen'. You have to decide to do it and then do it. Otherwise you are suggesting you are powerless to control yourself.

What do you hope to gain by checking? What happens if you see something you don't like, like a third party? React to it like most people do? Let it affect you? Decide to give up? When this forum used to be a lot more active a couple of years ago, I saw this happen all the time. The only thing that matters is what is going on in your imagination and your consistent, habitual thoughts. The current 3D is old news. You can change it by imaginal acts and consistent thoughts that are what you want to experience if you persist, give it the time it needs, and believe that what is going on in your mind is what creates. Live in the end in your imagination of already having your desire now and think from that perspective.

Strict mental diet, law of assumption, living in the end, faith that your thoughts and imagination create are the important things. It has to happen in your mind first before it gets pushed out into your external experience, and you don't have to lift a finger.