Posted by kevin  2/12/2020 2:33 am | #1 |
I am a cool and honest guy, who help people whenever they need for my help, but I also need your help about my problem that happened in my life.
I have to express my problem that happened six months before. I had a crush for seven months and I decided to express my feelings to her because I couldn't resist anymore. I like to be honest, and this was the reason that pushed me to showed directly the love to my crush, and then she immediately refused by saying - "don't talk to me anymore, every person who would say this to me I will not talk to him because by nature I am like this" , and she doesn't want to talk to me anymore in coming days. After one week we both randomly were accepted in a job, and we are working in an office with two other colleagues. She only talks with these two colleagues and NOT with me. She removed me from her social networks, and she doesn't even say me HI in office or in other places. I feel very bad every time I go to work because the same things repeats every day to me, she behaves very badly with me every time that I attempt to ask her anything. Sometime I try to make a conversation with this girl, but she doesn't talk to me in a normal way like she talks with two other colleagues. Now it is been six months since this long story happened.
After all I just want to be friend with her, because I can't live like this.
What do you recommend me to do in this situation?
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 2/12/2020 6:32 am | #2 |
Do you want to be friends? Or do you want a relationship and think being friends will lead to that? Firstly be 100% honest with yourself.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Posted by Cynthia 2/12/2020 7:14 am | #3 |
First, decide what it is you really want. Don't limit yourself to what you think it is possible for you to have. Then, in your imagination, go straight to the end result you want and think from the standpoint of already having your desire. Take no outward action to try to manipulate the situation directly. Have faith, persevere, and be patient.
I'm leaving you a few links below to listen to that will explain all of this and are a good introduction to Neville's teachings.
Neville Goddard - Mental Diets
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KnPAsGiQyiI
Neville - The Secret of Imagining
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YccI-t1yojk&t=9s
Neville - How to use your Imagination
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bKS_QIPet-k&t=90s
The first man to raise a fist is the man who has run out of ideas.
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Posted by kevin 2/12/2020 8:40 am | #4 |
PrettyFlamingo --- No no, Sincerely I just want to be friends, nothing more.
Cynthia--- Thank You, I appreciate it so much.
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 2/13/2020 4:19 am | #5 |
Cynthia wrote:
First, decide what it is you really want. Don't limit yourself to what you think it is possible for you to have. Then, in your imagination, go straight to the end result you want and think from the standpoint of already having your desire. Take no outward action to try to manipulate the situation directly. Have faith, persevere, and be patient.
I'm leaving you a few links below to listen to that will explain all of this and are a good introduction to Neville's teachings.
Neville Goddard - Mental Diets
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KnPAsGiQyiI
Neville - The Secret of Imagining
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YccI-t1yojk&t=9s
Neville - How to use your Imagination
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bKS_QIPet-k&t=90s
You took the words right out of my mouth! This was the kind of thing I was going to say once I had found out whether Kevin wanted a romantic relationship and was using friendship as a smokescreen for it, which he's replied to.
As usual, brilliant advice 
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Posted by Cynthia 2/13/2020 5:11 am | #6 |
First, decide what it is you really want. Don't limit yourself to what you think it is possible for you to have. Then, in your imagination, go straight to the end result you want and think from the standpoint of already having your desire. Take no outward action to try to manipulate the situation directly. Have faith, persevere, and be patient.
I'm leaving you a few links below to listen to that will explain all of this and are a good introduction to Neville's teachings.
Neville Goddard - Mental Diets
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KnPAsGiQyiI
Neville - The Secret of Imagining
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YccI-t1yojk&t=9s
Neville - How to use your Imagination
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bKS_QIPet-k&t=90sYou took the words right out of my mouth! This was the kind of thing I was going to say once I had found out whether Kevin wanted a romantic relationship and was using friendship as a smokescreen for it, which he's replied to.
As usual, brilliant advice
Thanks, PF!
Whatever type of relationship he wants, as I'm sure you know, it is the same principle to be applied, but we have often seen here what you asked him about from other people - wanting more than friendship but perhaps thinking they would start with that, maybe because they don't believe they could have more. However, for a number of reasons, they would be much better off living in the end of what their true desire is right from the beginning, as I'm sure you also know.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who has run out of ideas.
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Posted by kevin 2/14/2020 8:25 am | #7 |
First, decide what it is you really want. Don't limit yourself to what you think it is possible for you to have. Then, in your imagination, go straight to the end result you want and think from the standpoint of already having your desire. Take no outward action to try to manipulate the situation directly. Have faith, persevere, and be patient.
I'm leaving you a few links below to listen to that will explain all of this and are a good introduction to Neville's teachings.
Neville Goddard - Mental Diets
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KnPAsGiQyiI
Neville - The Secret of Imagining
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YccI-t1yojk&t=9s
Neville - How to use your Imagination
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bKS_QIPet-k&t=90sYou took the words right out of my mouth! This was the kind of thing I was going to say once I had found out whether Kevin wanted a romantic relationship and was using friendship as a smokescreen for it, which he's replied to.
As usual, brilliant adviceThanks, PF!
Whatever type of relationship he wants, as I'm sure you know, it is the same principle to be applied, but we have often seen here what you asked him about from other people - wanting more than friendship but perhaps thinking they would start with that, maybe because they don't believe they could have more. However, for a number of reasons, they would be much better off living in the end of what their true desire is right from the beginning, as I'm sure you also know.
How long does it take to have affect these videos? As I said, we aren't talking from 7 months now, but still working in the same office with two other colleagues.
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Posted by Cynthia 2/14/2020 10:15 am | #8 |
The videos won't do anything by themselves. As Neville said, we are the operant power. It doesn't operate itself. The object is to apply what is taught in those videos in a way that is meaningful to you consistently, with faith that your imaginal acts are creative of facts, because they are, and with patience and perseverance. Time doesn't matter, distance doesn't matter. It takes as long as it takes for each individual manifestation, like gestation periods for different animals and people are different, and nobody knows how long it will take. It is like planting seeds, but choosing the ones you want.
Just the other day I read a comment from somebody who was together with somebody else as a couple, and they had had absolutely no communication with each other for 10 years before that happened. I know somebody personally who had married somebody else because he incorrectly thought the love of his life had somebody else herself, and 30 years later found her again and married her a bit more than 2 years ago. I had a male friend with whom I'd had no contact for about that same period of time, and we've since reconnected. There was a lady who went to Neville's lectures who wanted to go to Egypt and after 7 years was offered a free trip that included going there. These may not be relevant to what your desire is, but I mention them because of the length of time involved that did not matter to the desired end result eventually occurring.This does not mean it has to take a long time or that it will take you 7, 10, or 30 years, but that persevering paid off for those who didn't give up too soon and too easily.
Last edited by Cynthia (2/15/2020 10:29 am)
The first man to raise a fist is the man who has run out of ideas.
