So I was scared that my SP was seeing someone else and while I’m new to all of this, I just want to say that I am in fact working on my issues too.
Anyhow, there were some personal items in the bathroom that were belongings of a female. Granted, he live in a sharehouse but they are all male and only one of them has a gf.
So I decided to use the rubbing out technique to get rid of all of the personal items in the bathroom... and it worked. Maybe a little bit TOO well because the couple in question now who were more than likely responsible for the items are now gone. Like I’m talking they moved out without a trace and didn’t pay the rent gone...
Did I screw up?