I have to say LOA really works when trying to manifesting a specific person. Although I have not yet reached my final goal yet but at least things are getting better. And now I really have this question and concern about what I should be doing in this situation in order to move on to the next step.. If anyone could give me some suggestions I would be truly appreciated. 

My story:
I have this crush for about a year now. For the first couple of months everything was good we kept texting each other all the time every day. And gradually I got so obsessed with him and as you can imagine, I started to push him away slowly. He started to be replying to my messages really slowly and makes me feel like I was annoying him. I didn’t know anything about LOA at that time and I was acting so desperately trying to get his attention and plan everything about what I should be texting him, and even stalking on his social media and got so jealous with this one girl that he seemed to like.
Ever since I felt that I started to push him away, he never reached out to me first and sometimes even ignored my messages. Not surprisingly, at the beginning of this semester, my fear finally came true and he started to date the girl I've been jealous at for months. However, that’s when I totally gave up on him and let go. I completely stopped messaging him, unfollowed him on Facebook and hid his updates on Instagram. And guess what? After a week of no contact he messaged me asking me how everything was going! But since he has a girlfriend I kind of changed my attitude towards him. I tried not to cross the line and just friendly reply him and seldom bring up any new topics.
During the past three to four months, I never message him first. Instead, he is always the one reaches out and starts a new conversation. Even in a big university we attend, we randomly bumped into each other couple of times and the smile on him when he sees me just makes me so happy (Last semester, I had to be wandering around the building he is usually in on purpose and “pretend” I bumped into him accidentally. Even if we did, his face always seemed so annoyed when he saw me).
Although I am happy that he has become the one that reaches out now, deep in my heart I know that I still really like him and want to be with him. However, I don’t know what to do as he is in a relationship right now and I truly wish him happy even though I wish the girl that could make him happy was me. I have watched so many LOA videos but I am still not so sure how I should be responding to his messages in this situation. If I treat him as he’s already my boyfriend, I would be sharing every little thing that happened to me and ask him about his life as well. But that’s kind of what I did last semester and it didn’t work.

Should I just keep doing what I am doing now? Simply friendly reply to his messages without starting new topics if it’s not needed even if the current one fades out? Sometimes he still replies to my messages really slowly (like one or twice a day. Sometimes even after 2 days…) It’s hard to not be frustrated when that happens but I think I am getting better. I am now trying to live my own life without being bothered if he had replied or not. And I LOA videos to raise my vibration when I think my mood is being affected. The message usually comes short after watching these!  I would be really appreciated if anyone could give me some advice on my situation in terms of how I should be responding to his messages. Thanks so much! :D

Last edited by sweetdreamwithyou (11/09/2018 6:44 pm)