Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / On the Subject of Exes

**Posted by Stacey** 10/17/2018 10:43 pm

Do you really want the ex back?

I'm asking this question after looking back on some older relationships myself and people I am close to were in. They were horrible, some were even downright toxic.

Our beliefs were obviously being reflected back to us, those people eventually left and naturally we were devastated. We craved them, we needed their presence back in our lives. Our whole world had left us.
As time went by and the initial sting of the breakup subsided, we realised we wanted them back in our lives for the wrong reasons.
It varied from having lost them as a big part of our routine, a case our pride being bruised, how could they leave us? We were the good ones. In some cases, we just needed their validation.

They weren't worth the effort in manifesting them back. And we've all moved on to better relationships with people who put in as much effort as we do.

Before you set out on the ex back journey ask yourself, is this worth it?
While I believe it's entirely possible to change the situation for the better, is it worth the possible aggro you could put yourself through?

If you believe they are your soulmate, great. Go for it.
If you're doing it for the wrong reason, it's honestly more hassle than it's worth.
You deserve the best and in some cases, leaving a relationship behind can be the best thing for your personal growth.

This isn't meant in a way to discourage anybody, just something that came to mind and thought I'd talk about on here.

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 10/18/2018 1:28 am

I agree. A particular horror named Paul comes to mind!

**Posted by happygirl97** 10/19/2018 7:39 am

I completely agree with that.
Its NOT worth it in some cases.
I attracted my ex back but it wasnt worth it.
I didnt even realise how emotionally abusive he was to me and when he came back it wasnt getting better.
At some point I didnt want him anymore naturally.

I learned a lot though, especially self love.
Its never never never about that specific person but learning to make yourself feel better and letting go of the beliefs that caused the problems.

**Posted by consciouscreation88** 11/06/2018 1:38 am

If you want to manifest your ex back, it is not enough to want him back for no reason at all.

Evaluate yourself first. Do you want your ex back because of revenge? Because you just feel alone? Because you are jealous of your friends having relationships while you sit there, alone and drinking coffee?

If you answer YES to the questions above, then you must stop what you're doing. Stop manifesting your ex back. There's no point in continuing it, because you don't have the purest intentions of manifesting your loved one back.

But if you know deep within yourself that you want your loved back because YOU LOVE HIM, nothing more, nothing less, then I think you should gather all your manifesting tools with you and start unlocking the power of your mind.