Posted by fizzy  9/07/2018 4:29 pm | #71 |
oceanitrogen wrote:
Yes it is, but try not to fall into the trap of looking to external reality to “see if this is working”. You ALREADY have him, so it doesn’t matter what’s going on in reality right now. It’s ok to be grateful for little things like that, but if something not so great were to happen, it would probably upset you and knock you right out of your state of already having him. Reality will change to bring you your desire, but you won’t know how it will all happen. The how takes care of itself. And sometimes “the how” looks like things getting worse or not changing. So always stay focused on your end result as if you have it now and don’t let whatever is going on in reality affect you. I hope that makes sense.FIZZY:
I got two questions put into very simple forms and I think it could be useful for people attracting their love. Since I vibe with your words so much I wanted you to answer them.
1. Can you make someone love you truly?
2. Is self love really vital to manifesting your love or is it just the belief that they love you?Oh yes yes, I need to know this also. And if you guys don't mind me adding a few questions:
3. Can you make the person be as open and as in love and as starstruck by you and they were before? Even more than before?
4. How do I go on about my day, every day? Do I vizualise him being with me every time I remember about him? Or do I only visualize at night? And can I script freely, creating nice situations? Also can I state that he's this and that and he's treating me this and that way?
5. What are some things I can do to make the fear vanish and believe a hundred percent we're together?
3. Yes and yes.
4. When you think of him, think from the perspective of already being in a relationship with him. You can visualize any time you like, but even doing it only at night is sufficient. Yes, you can script freely. Yes, you can state those things. Anything that keeps you in the feeling of already having him.
5. Remember that reality is your own personal dream, nobody can create in it but you. If you dream that he is your boyfriend, it must manifest. Also, read Neville. Lol.
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Posted by excalibar 9/07/2018 4:32 pm | #72 |
Yes it is, but try not to fall into the trap of looking to external reality to “see if this is working”. You ALREADY have him, so it doesn’t matter what’s going on in reality right now. It’s ok to be grateful for little things like that, but if something not so great were to happen, it would probably upset you and knock you right out of your state of already having him. Reality will change to bring you your desire, but you won’t know how it will all happen. The how takes care of itself. And sometimes “the how” looks like things getting worse or not changing. So always stay focused on your end result as if you have it now and don’t let whatever is going on in reality affect you. I hope that makes sense.FIZZY:
I got two questions put into very simple forms and I think it could be useful for people attracting their love. Since I vibe with your words so much I wanted you to answer them.
1. Can you make someone love you truly?
2. Is self love really vital to manifesting your love or is it just the belief that they love you?1. Yes.
2. It’s just the belief that they love you, but self love makes it easier for you to believe that. However, you could absolutely hate yourself and still believe that they love you, and get that.
I thought I’ve already answered these for you before... have you been putting any of it into practice?
Oh yea fizzy. My mind doesn't really fight with me on that anymore. Even people who have said that he's not what I think I've never taken them seriously because I know what I'm doing.
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Posted by oceanitrogen 9/07/2018 4:36 pm | #73 |
FIZZY:
I got two questions put into very simple forms and I think it could be useful for people attracting their love. Since I vibe with your words so much I wanted you to answer them.
1. Can you make someone love you truly?
2. Is self love really vital to manifesting your love or is it just the belief that they love you?Oh yes yes, I need to know this also. And if you guys don't mind me adding a few questions:
3. Can you make the person be as open and as in love and as starstruck by you and they were before? Even more than before?
4. How do I go on about my day, every day? Do I vizualise him being with me every time I remember about him? Or do I only visualize at night? And can I script freely, creating nice situations? Also can I state that he's this and that and he's treating me this and that way?
5. What are some things I can do to make the fear vanish and believe a hundred percent we're together?3. Yes and yes.
4. When you think of him, think from the perspective of already being in a relationship with him. You can visualize any time you like, but even doing it only at night is sufficient. Yes, you can script freely. Yes, you can state those things. Anything that keeps you in the feeling of already having him.
5. Remember that reality is your own personal dream, nobody can create in it but you. If you dream that he is your boyfriend, it must manifest. Also, read Neville. Lol.
Okay! Thank you so much! I'll visualize every time I feel like doing it then. It's very pleasureable. I love doing it haha. I just procrastinate a lot, so I'll be starting today to truly try and manifest because I haven't been able to do anything yet. Keep getting out of focus
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Posted by excalibar 9/07/2018 4:39 pm | #74 |
Oh yes yes, I need to know this also. And if you guys don't mind me adding a few questions:
3. Can you make the person be as open and as in love and as starstruck by you and they were before? Even more than before?
4. How do I go on about my day, every day? Do I vizualise him being with me every time I remember about him? Or do I only visualize at night? And can I script freely, creating nice situations? Also can I state that he's this and that and he's treating me this and that way?
5. What are some things I can do to make the fear vanish and believe a hundred percent we're together?3. Yes and yes.
4. When you think of him, think from the perspective of already being in a relationship with him. You can visualize any time you like, but even doing it only at night is sufficient. Yes, you can script freely. Yes, you can state those things. Anything that keeps you in the feeling of already having him.
5. Remember that reality is your own personal dream, nobody can create in it but you. If you dream that he is your boyfriend, it must manifest. Also, read Neville. Lol.Okay! Thank you so much! I'll visualize every time I feel like doing it then. It's very pleasureable. I love doing it haha. I just procrastinate a lot, so I'll be starting today to truly try and manifest because I haven't been able to do anything yet. Keep getting out of focus
Remember what you believe to be true about him AND yourself is EXACTLY what you'll get. This happened to me this summer.
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Posted by oceanitrogen 9/07/2018 5:07 pm | #75 |
3. Yes and yes.
4. When you think of him, think from the perspective of already being in a relationship with him. You can visualize any time you like, but even doing it only at night is sufficient. Yes, you can script freely. Yes, you can state those things. Anything that keeps you in the feeling of already having him.
5. Remember that reality is your own personal dream, nobody can create in it but you. If you dream that he is your boyfriend, it must manifest. Also, read Neville. Lol.Okay! Thank you so much! I'll visualize every time I feel like doing it then. It's very pleasureable. I love doing it haha. I just procrastinate a lot, so I'll be starting today to truly try and manifest because I haven't been able to do anything yet. Keep getting out of focus
Remember what you believe to be true about him AND yourself is EXACTLY what you'll get. This happened to me this summer.
Ohhhh please tell me your story! Please please, I would love to hear it. It puts me in such a high vibration
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Posted by Cynthia 9/07/2018 5:12 pm | #76 |
I'm trying. I was very positive but now I'm thinking about the messages he sent his friend again. It's hurting me so much, how do I make it stop?I know I'm stating the bleeding obvious, but stop looking at the things that upset you and give you doubts and fears and worries. If you're on social media and you can't resist looking at somebody's page or whatever it is and it's upsetting you to do that, then delete your account if you have to. How much do you want whatever it is? If you want it badly enough, you will do whatever it takes. You have to move your attention away from those undesirable things and put it onto what it is you want to manifest and imagine whatever it is as if you have it right now. It doesn't matter what the outside world looks like right now because that will change if you do what you need to do.
But I'm not looking. I haven't looked since. But I keep remembering it! I need to know how to forget what I saw and focus on us already being together. And I manage to do it for a few hours and then I remember it and I feel so scared. I don't know how to forget about it.
It's good that you've not looking any more. I'm glad to hear that. There's nothing to be scared about. You have to learn to discipline your mind and control your thoughts. Nobody can do it for you. It's not so much about trying to forget something, it's taking your attention away from the undesirable thoughts and putting it back on the desirable ones. Every time it happens, either do that, or if you can't do that right now, don't think about anything or think about something completely different. If you catch yourself thinking about those messages, you can even say 'stop' out loud or get yourself an elastic band and put it round your wrist and snap it if that would help. Do whatever it takes. You can do this with some practice, but only you can control your own mind.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who has run out of ideas.
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Posted by excalibar 9/07/2018 5:13 pm | #77 |
Okay! Thank you so much! I'll visualize every time I feel like doing it then. It's very pleasureable. I love doing it haha. I just procrastinate a lot, so I'll be starting today to truly try and manifest because I haven't been able to do anything yet. Keep getting out of focusRemember what you believe to be true about him AND yourself is EXACTLY what you'll get. This happened to me this summer.
Ohhhh please tell me your story! Please please, I would love to hear it. It puts me in such a high vibration
This summer is when this happened:
I thought very sexually about him and thought that he only liked big tits and ass and whores/sluts. I believed that I had to change to accommodate that... we became friends with benefits in a way and he ended up ignoring me and verifying the things I thought he thought about me/what I was believing about myself. That was that I'm ugly can't please him enough and that I'm a whore. That's why I had to take a break from him and stop communicating with him. I learned that I really need to think about him truly loving me and if I think sexually about him than I also visualize him saying how much he cherishes me throughout the act and making an effort to stay up with me after when his body wants to sleep.
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Posted by oceanitrogen 9/07/2018 5:28 pm | #78 |
I know I'm stating the bleeding obvious, but stop looking at the things that upset you and give you doubts and fears and worries. If you're on social media and you can't resist looking at somebody's page or whatever it is and it's upsetting you to do that, then delete your account if you have to. How much do you want whatever it is? If you want it badly enough, you will do whatever it takes. You have to move your attention away from those undesirable things and put it onto what it is you want to manifest and imagine whatever it is as if you have it right now. It doesn't matter what the outside world looks like right now because that will change if you do what you need to do.
But I'm not looking. I haven't looked since. But I keep remembering it! I need to know how to forget what I saw and focus on us already being together. And I manage to do it for a few hours and then I remember it and I feel so scared. I don't know how to forget about it.
It's good that you've not looking any more. I'm glad to hear that. There's nothing to be scared about. You have to learn to discipline your mind and control your thoughts. Nobody can do it for you. It's not so much about trying to forget something, it's taking your attention away from the undesirable thoughts and putting it back on the desirable ones. Every time it happens, either do that, or if you can't do that right now, don't think about anything or think about something completely different. If you catch yourself thinking about those messages, you can even say 'stop' out loud or get yourself an elastic band and put it round your wrist and snap it if that would help. Do whatever it takes. You can do this with some practice, but only you can control your own mind.
That's a good idea! Thank you so much. I'll do the elastic band thing. And also, I keep thinking about it because I want him to clarify to me what those messages were and I want him to APOLOGISE. But he'll only own me an explanation and apologise when we're together again, so I need to focus on that haha. Will do the elastic band thing
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Posted by excalibar 9/07/2018 5:37 pm | #79 |
FIZZY:
I got two questions put into very simple forms and I think it could be useful for people attracting their love. Since I vibe with your words so much I wanted you to answer them.
1. Can you make someone love you truly?
2. Is self love really vital to manifesting your love or is it just the belief that they love you?Oh yes yes, I need to know this also. And if you guys don't mind me adding a few questions:
3. Can you make the person be as open and as in love and as starstruck by you and they were before? Even more than before?
4. How do I go on about my day, every day? Do I vizualise him being with me every time I remember about him? Or do I only visualize at night? And can I script freely, creating nice situations? Also can I state that he's this and that and he's treating me this and that way?
5. What are some things I can do to make the fear vanish and believe a hundred percent we're together?3. Yes and yes.
4. When you think of him, think from the perspective of already being in a relationship with him. You can visualize any time you like, but even doing it only at night is sufficient. Yes, you can script freely. Yes, you can state those things. Anything that keeps you in the feeling of already having him.
5. Remember that reality is your own personal dream, nobody can create in it but you. If you dream that he is your boyfriend, it must manifest. Also, read Neville. Lol.
I notice that when I do affirmations and intentions for example " RR loves me the most" I usually put a truly or something of that nature because I fear that it won't be natural from his end, like I'm forcing him to do something and our love will be fake.. what should I do about those words I use like ex: truly, naturally, honestly etc because I want to be precise and I want him to naturally fall for me as well. What should I do FIZZY?
Last edited by excalibar (9/07/2018 7:57 pm)
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Posted by Aquilina 9/07/2018 5:41 pm | #80 |
Training your mind, and also KNOWING that if you do what has to be done, it WILL manifest, because it's the LAW.
"We imagine the wish fulfilled and carry on mental conversations from that premise. Through controlled inner talking from premises of fulfilled desire, seeming miracles are performed". - Neville Goddard, Awakened Imagination, Chapter Five
