Hey everyone,

So, I haven’t been on here for a very long time since I cut off contact again with my guy and needed some time to focus on myself. After three month of no contact when I finally really felt like letting go of him he texted me just asking how I was but asking me question after question, almost like he was forcing to keep the conversation going. After that he send me a message that he sometimes misses me and just wanted to be honest. I asked him why and he replied that he misses the good times and talking to me. I know how much a lot would burst into joy getting this message and how I would have to a few weeks ago. But something inside of me got scared that maybe he‘s just searching for attention and checking if I’m still available and that his intentions aren’t what I want them to be. So I just agreed that indeed we had some good times. But now I am regretting it. What if this was the opportunity i‘ve been waiting for and I screwed it up and he won’t try again ( my guy usually never has been the one to text first, and it‘s possible that this alone was a huge step for me). Has anyone been in this situation and has some advice? One part of me tells me to take the risk, be honest and tell him I miss him too, the other part tells me to stay strong, keep doing what I was doing and trust that something more will come from him, like him specifically telling me that he wants me back. But I really don’t know. I‘m completely confused about what to do next.