My friend and I (lets call him Bob) established a relationship with each other last friday. Today he texts me out of the random blue and tells me we should just be friends due to he is afraid of becoming an abusive asshole and ruin any chance of our friendship completely. I have tried reasoning with him to talk things out but he tells me "I've Made Up My Mind"

Before meeting me, he was in a relationship with his ex for 4 years and almost proposed u til he found out that she cheated.

I believe he does like me but is scared to take it the next step.

Our friendship is great. We do everything together and see each other at least once or twice a week. I have met his parents and they are great people. They enjoy having me around. Bob also moved into a new house 3 months ago and wanted me to pick out new colors to repaint his home.

Im not quite understanding why he decided to call it off...? He isn't abusive and has always treated me with the most love and respect.

We are meeting tomorrow for dinner......

What should I do? Talk to him about this? Go back to being friends and bring up the idea of a relationship again in the future? Or just be friends?

Since we are meeting tomorrow, can I use LOA to change his mind tomorrow or hopefully in the future....?


Thx
SeeKnee