Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / I Really need help for letting go! :(

**Posted by SimplyFliss48** 7/02/2018 3:10 pm

Hello, I’m really sorry. I know I sound very desperate but, I’ve been listening to subliminals for about 12 days now and I feel I’ve kinda been attached again and I just want the feeling to go! So, today, in class, me and my friend were opposite my ex and his friend and over the weekend, I visualised my ex saying that I was depressing for some random reason and he is a jokey person and extroverted. So, in class, it turns out that my ex said something like she’s depressed. I’m not sure if it was some joke/a way to flirt etc as I know there are guys out there that do that accidentally. I don’t know if this means that my manifestation is near or if I’m just being stupid... I kinda want my ex back but, I don’t know how to fully let go. I let go but come back on this.

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 7/02/2018 3:21 pm

We all have our moments where things drag us back downhill. Just detach from everything going on around you, do something that is fun, and completely get your mind out of it. Play outside with pets, kids, go for walk, blast music in that ear so your thoughts are muted, go to a movie, do anything that makes you completely forget about time. Sometimes we just need a break from the work and to simply relax, even if it's as simple as reading a book or taking a bath.

What you seek is seeking you. Don't even worry over the reality of what's up. don't overthink, don't create a problem where there is none. If you want him back, it'll happen when you can think happy towards him versus the negative "stay away" vibe that is desperation and need to have him there. When you don't care, but would prefer him back, that's usually what happens. Take signs as the universe confirming to you, "we're working on this for you, go about your day and have fun." Say "thank you Universe," then go about that day knowing it'll happen. And realize that when it takes longer than a few days or weeks? The Universe is making him a better person for you. Because you deserve that. Can't eat that delicious cake before it's ready can we? Or it'll just be a puddle of batter! We want that delicious slice of baked cake that's all warm and perfect.

**Posted by SimplyFliss48** 7/02/2018 3:47 pm

Ok, thank you so much! I’m also going to stop listening to ex subliminals and listen to self love/relaxing ones instead or just relaxing ones. I don’t want to mess up anything and thankfully, the 6 week holiday thingy is going to be here soon and I only have three weeks left until school ends! I’ll finally be able to get away from my ex and everyone and boost up the process of being able to focus on myself. ;) I surrender to the universe! ;)

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 7/02/2018 4:24 pm

Sounds like a great personal plan. Surrender is the BEST thing we can all do. I've cut back on listening to subliminals too. I do it more for maintenance instead of daily stuff (so like once a week is more than enough). I try to also incorporate just happy music. Doesn't matter the music, but I mean the songs that I love that make me feel good and up my mood. Can be ANY song, as long as it makes me wanna dance and sing along. I feel that along with, or in place of subliminals, that sort of thing really helps me because then I get out of my head, my thoughts can't focus on anything but having a fun time (even if I'm cooking dinner or cleaning, lol) and just boosts my self-esteem. Because THAT detachment is what helps us manifest. For me it's not just a person, but life goodness too. So being in a happy and non-stressed place daily is amazing for it.

**Posted by madone87** 7/02/2018 8:03 pm

Same boat too. Sometimes I am fine with letting go and some other time I am struggling. I wondered why he didn't find me, with texts or calls or whatever it is. Detaching from current reality is something I need to learn too. What a rough month.

**Posted by Cralyn** 7/03/2018 12:16 pm

I had the same day yesterday and when I woke up this morning but I listened to one of Veronica’s videos on YouTube https://youtu.be/NRjl4ZqKutI it really helped me put things into perspective my goal is to manage two consecutive days with out completely doubting myself lol

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 7/03/2018 12:49 pm

Could also be just energy based. I was doing so well energy wise these past few weeks and for about a week, I completely went into hermit mode. I stopped going on social media and don't have interest in it. Not because I'm in a bad place but just don't feel like it and I know many others outside of manifesting that are in the same boat. People who discuss how planets and earth cycles can affect our mood. Never really been into it but now that I'm learning more, I'm learning it's good because I see that it isn't me, but a natural cycle happening. We ebb and flow naturally with the earth. Knowing when my mood may naturally change helps me be proactive and embrace the flow more.