Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Technique -shift to your desired reality

**Posted by Laura1234** 6/26/2018 12:34 pm

https://www.reddit.com/r/lawofattraction/comments/5q5lsc/shift_to_your_desired_reality_technique_i_use_and/

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 6/26/2018 3:35 pm

Hmm, that seems a lot like it's Superman from the poweroflawandattraction forum, lol. I'd been reading through his post there on playing a game for thirty days. Was interesting to read all the great comments. Thanks for posting that link. Great refresher.

**Posted by MoonBug** 6/27/2018 11:52 am

I like this idea a lot, and I’ve read variations on it before. I even was brave enough once to do the “dimensional jumping” mirror technique, where you gaze into a mirror in the dark with just a candle, and basically trade places with your ideal, parallel self in the mirror. But it’s creepy! And I didn’t get any result I was happy with, probably because I was coming from a place of believing in the so-called current reality, as if the one I wanted was “over there”, on the other side of the mirror, rather than where I AM right now.

Neville’s techniques are so much more pleasant, and this one reminds me of Feeling is the Secret. It’s encouraging that the poster says he shifted his relationship in only two weeks! I’m searching now for ways to fix my marriage, which isn’t completely broken up, but in a state of separation. Maybe this is the way to do it. Live as if the relationship is currently in the state I want it to be in, because in another reality, it IS.

So many techniques to choose from, I just have to find one that feels natural. I’ve been putting too much effort into this, way too much strain.

Thanks for sharing

Last edited by MoonBug (6/27/2018 12:46 pm)

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 6/27/2018 12:13 pm

Have you tried making your own MoonBug? As long it's got a pure intention behind it, and it works to help you envision, it'll work. I heard some draw out the scenes for what they want. If you think about the girls who used to put their names next to their crush and a heart around it back in school? Same thing! lol Like carving initials into a tree.

**Posted by MoonBug** 6/27/2018 12:42 pm

Hi Sunshine&Dreams!

Yes, I think that might be a great way to go. I’m an artist, so I could make a drawing of the scene I’d like to experience in the future as if it’s already happened, gaze at it, write a script to go with it, and do a visualization to feel through it. The main thing is that it has to feel real to me, which has been a huge challenge these past months. I’ve tried so many visualizations, but they feel like too much effort, thus, they feel the same as what I’m currently living. I know that can never work. If the process feels frustrating, it’ll only perpetuate the frustrating state I’m in. I struggle in visualizations to see things from 1st person perspective, although it does seem to help looking down at my imaginary hands, holding and manipulating a “prop” that would match the scene. Perhaps a new wedding ring to celebrate our 10 years... It’ll be belated, but I could revise it so that we celebrated it on time.

Okay... Wandering thought a bit here...

I think what I’ll do to shift into the desired reality is first script the scene I’d like to live, to include the new ring. I’m going for a mani pedi with my mom tomorrow, so I bet I could get her to take me to a jewelry store, and I could take a picture of my hand with a new ring on it. I’ll post that script here. Which sub-forum would that best go in do you think? For myself, I’ll take the photo of my hand and incorporate it into a drawing. Or if that feels like too much work, I’ll just stare at the photo before visualizing the scene.

What do you think? Good plan?

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 6/27/2018 1:07 pm

Wander all you like, haha. I'm a fiction writer so it's so hard for me to condense thoughts. *face palm* lol

That actually sounds like a great idea! Especially if it feels easier for you. Change the visualization if it gets frustrating. Instead of a same ol' spice things up then. Maybe advance it to something new and exciting in a later time after you've been married for years, that you'd do to spice up the marriage. Or you two being old and hanging out together. Visualizations can also be as simple as picturing yourself having dinner with him while you're eating dinner now. Or talking to him as if he's there (sounds nuts, but it can help).

With mine, I went to writing letters. Occasionally if I want to get something out that's bottling up to him, I write a letter as if I'm directly talking to him now. Then thank the universe and him for being in my life. I only do it once a week at the minimum. I'm not trying to rush anything, which may add to a frustration state. If we rush faster than we are prepared for, then it can get us in that irritated state. I know from experience that even if it's once a month we do something toward that goal, the manifestation will happen.

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 6/27/2018 1:09 pm

Oh, and there is a scripting forum. Just start your own thread. It's under Index > Flying High > Scripting.

Here's the link - http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewforum.php?id=13000001

**Posted by MoonBug** 6/27/2018 1:21 pm

Thank you, Sunshine&Dreams!

I’ll get to work on the script and will post it to that forum as soon as it’s ready. I also write fiction, so it shouldn’t be hard to do, and the photo visual of the new ring will make it feel more real. As for length of time, as Dr. Pillai says, “Waiting is a waste of time.” LOL It’s been five months already of living apart, and I’ve just plain had enough of it. He’s right on that edge of coming home, I feel I just need to get into a state of believing he’s already here in order to make it so. Once the belief changes, the reality will. There are things he seems to want me to do physically before he’ll be ready, but I don’t want to start scurrying about doing actions to impress him. It has to happen from the inside out.

Thanks again so much for the feedback. I feel better already

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 6/27/2018 3:53 pm

You're most welcome. I am in a very similar state. I feel like he's right there, but lately with the lovely energies floating about from whatever my brain is more "I should just let it go." So I'm fluttery right now. Yet I still feel like he is RIGHT THERE. lol

**Posted by MoonBug** 6/27/2018 6:59 pm

I know, right??? My husband is my best friend, and we’ve had some lovely conversations the last couple of months, about all kinds of things. But I’m terrible about not bringing up the subject of getting back together. It’s like a compulsion. But then he always says he’s thinking about it, and I think he’s being truthful. But if I’d just stop asking, I bet he’d be back so fast I’d get whiplash, becauseI know my asking annoys him and pushes him away. Round and round it goes.

What IS it that makes us want to keep poking the hornet’s nest? I’m feeling similar to you right now, though, but it’s balanced with a determination that I am so done with this being apart thing. Yet it seems the only way to shift out of that is somehow to let it go. It’s really damn hard when I’m surrounded by evidence of not only his absence, but also his presence before he left. It’s like living with a ghost. UGH.

Alright, off to write that script... It’s time to fix this thing.