Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / manifesting for wrong reasons

**Posted by RoxyG** 4/30/2018 6:49 am

Hello! I have a quick question. In the past, I was able to manifest 4 exes (not at the same time ) but for all wrong reasons, like not wanting to be alone. It took 2-3 weeks and they were back. I knew very well that those guys were SO not good for me, but manifested them anyways. Regretted it after. But now, I'm working on my current situation (great guy, has kids that I love, hard working man, was treating me so well) and there seems to be a block. It's been 3 months and nothing has changed. So I am wondering why I can so easily attract back negative situations but not positive ones. Thanks for your input!

**Posted by fizzy** 4/30/2018 6:57 am

Look at what you are believing about yourself, about this guy, and about what’s possible. The block is somewhere in your beliefs.

**Posted by RoxyG** 4/30/2018 8:31 am

fizzy wrote:
Look at what you are believing about yourself, about this guy, and about what’s possible. The block is somewhere in your beliefs.

well, at the beginning, I was sure he was going to come back... but 3 months later, it gets harder to believe. I SO don't see why it was so easy to manifest something that I knew wasn't good for me but have a hard time manifesting something good!

**Posted by fizzy** 4/30/2018 8:42 am

RoxyG wrote:
well, at the beginning, I was sure he was going to come back... but 3 months later, it gets harder to believe. I SO don't see why it was so easy to manifest something that I knew wasn't good for me but have a hard time manifesting something good!

The universe doesn’t understand the difference between good or bad. The universe isn’t even something separate from you, but for the sake of understanding, I’m going to word my response this way. The universe is completely neutral and only manifests what you believe. So when you manifested these other “bad” situations, you had beliefs about yourself, these other guys, and what’s possible that supported them returning to you. Right now you have a belief or beliefs that does not support you manifesting this guy. So my advice is to drop the “good” and “bad” labels and figure out the beliefs you have that don’t support you being in a relationship with him righf now. Time is irrelevant. You could have no contact with him for 10 years and you would still be able to manifest a relationship with him. That in itself is a belief that doesn’t support what you want. And may actually be the one and only belief that’s blocking it.

**Posted by RoxyG** 4/30/2018 8:44 am

fizzy wrote:
RoxyG wrote:
well, at the beginning, I was sure he was going to come back... but 3 months later, it gets harder to believe. I SO don't see why it was so easy to manifest something that I knew wasn't good for me but have a hard time manifesting something good!
The universe doesn’t understand the difference between good or bad. The universe isn’t even something separate from you, but for the sake of understanding, I’m going to word my response this way. The universe is completely neutral and only manifests what you believe. So when you manifested these other “bad” situations, you had beliefs about yourself, these other guys, and what’s possible that supported them returning to you. Right now you have a belief or beliefs that does not support you manifesting this guy. So my advice is to drop the “good” and “bad” labels and figure out the beliefs you have that don’t support you being in a relationship with him righf now. Time is irrelevant. You could have no contact with him for 10 years and you would still be able to manifest a relationship with him. That in itself is a belief that doesn’t support what you want. And may actually be the one and only belief that’s blocking it.

Thank you

**Posted by fizzy** 4/30/2018 9:03 am

You’re welcome

**Posted by Witchtable** 4/30/2018 9:20 am

Yeah the thing about time is really good to keep in mind since at least for me, it makes me relax more.
Have you tried making a vision board or maybe a focus wheel?
I send you lots of good vibes.

**Posted by Stacey** 5/01/2018 9:57 pm

The universe cannot tell right from wrong, so this is a blessing and a curse with situations like this. With the other exes, you probably didn't feel as if you had much of anything to lose, so there was less resistance with them. As you have mentioned with your person, he's got children that you care for and he's a good man.
Maybe with this, you're worried about losing out on all these things you clearly care for? Have a look within and see if you can pinpoint the blocks and work from there.