Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / It's been so long

**Posted by Berry** 4/29/2018 2:59 am

My ex fiancé and I broke up at the end of 2016. I found out about loa in April 2017, I've tried so many techniques to get him back. I was blocked at the time and managed to manifest an unblock and meet ups at the end of 2017.
Whilst I thought things were going well, he said he wanted to date someone else he'd been talking to. I have no idea if they are together officially but they have been seen out once.
Anyway when he told me about dating someone I became very hurt and reacted badly and now I'm blocked again. It's been a few months. I'm at a Loss of what to do as I've tried all of these techniques.
I don't know if he hates me or loves me. I have no idea whatsoever. I know if I was to reach out he would ignore me. Also to add he has narciccistic tendencies.

When we did meet up though things were perfect and I'd love to recapture what we had and what was building up again. I'm gutted I've gone and got myself blocked again.

I don't know what to do.

I've tried praying recently too but no luck or even signs.

Plz help

**Posted by Cynthia** 4/29/2018 3:28 am

Berry wrote:
My ex fiancé and I broke up at the end of 2016. I found out about loa in April 2017, I've tried so many techniques to get him back. I was blocked at the time and managed to manifest an unblock and meet ups at the end of 2017.
Whilst I thought things were going well, he said he wanted to date someone else he'd been talking to. I have no idea if they are together officially but they have been seen out once.
Anyway when he told me about dating someone I became very hurt and reacted badly and now I'm blocked again. It's been a few months. I'm at a Loss of what to do as I've tried all of these techniques.
I don't know if he hates me or loves me. I have no idea whatsoever. I know if I was to reach out he would ignore me. Also to add he has narciccistic tendencies.

When we did meet up though things were perfect and I'd love to recapture what we had and what was building up again. I'm gutted I've gone and got myself blocked again.

I don't know what to do.

I've tried praying recently too but no luck or even signs.

Plz help

Go back and read the good advice you were given not that long ago in one of your previous posts where you asked more or less the same questions.

**Posted by Berry** 4/29/2018 3:49 am

Hi yes i have been living as if but no signs of success whatsoever despite trying very hard

Last edited by Berry (4/29/2018 3:49 am)

**Posted by Berry** 4/29/2018 3:50 am

I have used the techniques and really believed in them but nothing. I am still blocked. What next?

**Posted by Sanshi** 4/29/2018 4:22 am

It's not even a month since your last post and what you write hasn't changed a bit. You didn't change your beliefs at all. It's about changing yourself, not doing any techniques and hoping that they could be the solution to your problem.

**Posted by Berry** 4/29/2018 4:46 am

For a year I've been working on myself before posting on here.
I have changed significantly for the better. I have focused on positivity and sending love out to everybody, forgiveness. But it comes to a point where you think well what now? Maybe I shouldn't convince myself that I WILL get him back. I seem to be missing something and I don't know what it is.

**Posted by fizzy** 4/29/2018 5:33 am

Berry wrote:
For a year I've been working on myself before posting on here.
I have changed significantly for the better. I have focused on positivity and sending love out to everybody, forgiveness. But it comes to a point where you think well what now? Maybe I shouldn't convince myself that I WILL get him back. I seem to be missing something and I don't know what it is.

Convincing yourself that you will get him back is what will bring him back. There isn’t any “what now”. You have to give things time and not let what’s going on with him affect you. As long as you’re reacting to it internally, it’s going to be there.

**Posted by Sanshi** 4/29/2018 6:15 am

Berry wrote:
For a year I've been working on myself before posting on here.
I have changed significantly for the better. I have focused on positivity and sending love out to everybody, forgiveness. But it comes to a point where you think well what now? Maybe I shouldn't convince myself that I WILL get him back. I seem to be missing something and I don't know what it is.

I was referring to the story you are telling yourself (and us), not to your growth in general. It always comes down to what you believe. And as long as you tell the breakup story, you don't believe in a reality that could be different. In a scenario in which you know that it's a done deal, why would you think about the breakup? You wouldn't. You were way too busy with thinking about all the great stuff you know it's on its way.

**Posted by Berry** 4/29/2018 6:57 am

Okay I see. Thank you.

May I ask did any of you successfully manifest an ex back and if so how long did it take? Is that pretty much what you did? Just know that they will be back?

What about action? Ie I have drafted him a letter as it helped me with my emotions I probably won't send it to him but I sometimes question whether I should.

**Posted by Witchtable** 4/29/2018 8:05 am

You could write him virtual letters every day. I do that and it feels good and makes ne feel connected and it is easier to visualize. I also make a vision book with future goals or dreams for me. Many of them include my special person. I find that a good way to visualize too. Looking into the book once a day.

And self love every day is also important I'd say. So don't stop with thatt either.

And don't think about when this or that might happen.
You already did well, so you can do again.

I send the best of the positive vibes and energy to you.
You can do it.