It's not so much about the texting itself. If you were completely confident that everything is fine and that he will reply and be happy about the contact or is waiting for your message, but you aren't. Else there were no need to attract him back. I know where you are coming from. I was there too in the beginning and still sometimes fall back. You are aware that you are creating your reality, then something happens (you get to speak to him) and then you put again all your hopes in outside reality and hope that it will somehow will work out without you doing something for it. But believe me, that never worked for me - not once, and I did it a lot. It's always about what you believe and expect, there is no other way for things to happen. And when you are anxious, it's a clear sign that what you will encounter within the next days or weeks won't be what you want to encounter. It's best to adress it the moment anxiety comes up and not waiting in hope that it won't manifest - it will, always. I didn't comment on your last post, because I had pointed that out and I didn't want to bring you down unnecessarily and kinda hoped that you have some belief somewhere deep down that could counteract your fear, but when people write that they are anxious about something the outcome in most cases is what they don't want.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise