Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Can I attract my ex who is sad and hurt over someone else?

**Posted by happythoughts** 4/03/2018 8:20 pm

I’ve been trying to attract him back for months and I’ve only received little signs from here and there. Recently he’s been snapping me more and starting short conversations but other than that, I know he’s sad over someone who hurt him romantically a few months after we broke up. We were together for almost 3 years. I know I’m not supposed to look at current reality or anything like that but I don’t know if I’m on the right track. I don’t know if I can even attract him back since LOA says we need to be on the same vibrational level in order to get back together but what if I’m in a high vibration and he’s in a low vibration? I’ve been letting go recently and just focusing on myself and I think that’s why he’s been contacting me more often but sometimes I still get doubts and other stuff.

**Posted by fizzy** 4/03/2018 9:40 pm

You can attract him back. Disregard the vibrational stuff. Anything you can imagine exists, and to manifest any imaginal scene, you have to match it with your belief. So basically, you must get yourself to believe that you are in a happy relationship with him. And that’s all it takes no matter what he appears to be feeling. You can imagine him feeling good.

**Posted by Cynthia** 4/03/2018 10:07 pm

fizzy wrote:
You can attract him back. Disregard the vibrational stuff. Anything you can imagine exists, and to manifest any imaginal scene, you have to match it with your belief. So basically, you must get yourself to believe that you are in a happy relationship with him. And that’s all it takes no matter what he appears to be feeling. You can imagine him feeling good.

I agree, and you are creating blocks to your desire by making assumptions about how he's feeling and what he's capable of, whether you're vibrational matches, etc. You are judging by outward appearances. You can never really know what another person is thinking and feeling. It doesn't even matter. Only your own beliefs matter, so choose the ones that serve you.