Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Looking for Some General Advice...

**Posted by AnythingIsPossible** 3/14/2018 12:29 pm

I've been at this for a while. I didn't have any movement, until about a week ago I decided to friend request him on Instagram. I know I did it out of fear, but as soon as I recognized that I just let it go. He ended up accepting my request. A couple days later, I get a notification that he followed me, but for some reason I wasn't following him anymore (he must've blocked me). Anyway, I re-friend requested him and he accepted. Idk what any of this means and I'm not trying to figure out the meaning. I just don't know where to go from here.

He's still in a relationship and posting picture of the two of them. I haven't had any communication with him for months. I was feeling great these past few weeks and focusing more on other aspects of my life. Now, I'm starting to think it's just not going to happen for me. I do want him to be happy and maybe he's happier with her. I don't know what else I can do.

There have been some great success stories lately, so I thought maybe someone could give me some advice/encouragement on what you did when you felt low or like it wasn't going to happen for you.

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 3/14/2018 12:40 pm

I think you should not follow him. There is still
Some part in you that thinks you are second best etc. I think it's good to not follow him. Focus on you and building yourself up. Sometimes we still have subconscious beliefs that block us. Really ask yourself if you were feeling all great would you have requested out of fear? Were you trying to snoop to see if he was single? Thise things show that you are still acting out of lack and fear. I would let it go take a step back and focus on you and instill promote self love as that helps dissolve negative beliefs and can help work on the blocks . Then after that or when you feel good do some visualizing etc .

**Posted by AnythingIsPossible** 3/14/2018 1:00 pm

You're right. In that moment, I had followed him to find out anything I could on their relationship.
I've come a LONG way and am in a good, healthy place now but I'm still so scared/sad of it not happening and I feel like if I pull away completely it won't. But it's worth a shot, since this way isn't producing the results I really want.
Thanks!!

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 3/14/2018 1:09 pm

AnythingIsPossible wrote:
You're right. In that moment, I had followed him to find out anything I could on their relationship.
I've come a LONG way and am in a good, healthy place now but I'm still so scared/sad of it not happening and I feel like if I pull away completely it won't. But it's worth a shot, since this way isn't producing the results I really want.
Thanks!!

Of course but see you are coming from a place of lack which is why this happened this way. You weren't following him or anything for fun and stuff you came from a place of is this working? I want to see something? Is he with her etc. focus on you keep it up and just enjoy life . We deserve to be happy now and the best things come from the positive energy we radiate out. We deserve to treat ourselves like our own best friend

**Posted by AnythingIsPossible** 3/14/2018 2:19 pm

Do you have any things you tell yourself (affirmations or reminders) when you feel like it's not working? Also, how did you get out of the feeling of lack? Did you just take your focus off that subject and put it onto something positive? And in doing that the resistance faded away and allowed your desire to manifest?

I think if I completely take my focus off the resistance I have, then the resistance is still there and affecting my manifestation I'm just not consciously focusing on it. I feel like if I have to tackle the resistance head-on somehow. Just so you know, my resistance is that he & I can't and won't be together because he's with her. This use to be a huge block for me. At first I didn't think it was going to be possible. I thought my situation was hopeless. Now I think it's very possible if I do the work, but I'm doing all the "steps" and he still hasn't broken up with her and come back to me, so my resistance is still there.

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