Meg2222 wrote:

Hey guys, I know I haven't logged onto here for ages! But happy to say I'm still in a happy relationship and have been for a year and also been manifesting very well However, I don't know why but something has popped up in my head, and I really want to reconcile with my ex best friend.

Long story short, I have known her a long time, we had a falling out because she started acting really off with me, and my ex boyfriend used to flirt with her a lot (serial cheat) because I was delusional and thought I was in love with him, I believed him when he said he wasn't. My other best friend used to plant seeds that it was her, I think she had always been jealous of my friendship with my ex best friend and I feel like she may have stirred things up and made them worse. Anyway the outcome was my best friend showed me some messages that my ex best friend had sent her about me and I got mad and told her I didn't want to be friends with her anymore. We had a huge row and my best friend now and I fell out with our ex friend. (Sorry if this is confusing). 

Lately I have been seeing another side to the girl I'm still friends with, shes paranoid and very insecure to the point its making her toxic. I have tried to brush it off but she keeps bringing up stuff that happened in the past and implying that her boyfriend she now lives with fancies me. We had spoken and sorted this out but she keeps bringing it up and now its making me uncomfortable. But now I am thinking if she didn't stir everything up with my ex best friend then maybe we would still be friends. I am feeling very conflicted with the two of them, but also feel I owe my ex best friend an apology. I know if I apologised to her though that my friend now would fall out with me because she would see it as being disloyal. When its nothing to do with her, I just don't want to hold this hurt around anymore and I want to say sorry for any hurt I may have caused. I do miss my ex best friend very much, she was selfish and not a good friend at times but she also was at the same time. I am very confused! 

Sorry if this is off topic of getting your ex boyfriend back! xx

 
If I were you, I would follow my heart and do what I felt was right for me and wouldn't concern myself with whether anybody else approved or not.

Meg2222 wrote:

Cynthia wrote:

Meg2222 wrote:

Hey guys, I know I haven't logged onto here for ages! But happy to say I'm still in a happy relationship and have been for a year and also been manifesting very well However, I don't know why but something has popped up in my head, and I really want to reconcile with my ex best friend.

Long story short, I have known her a long time, we had a falling out because she started acting really off with me, and my ex boyfriend used to flirt with her a lot (serial cheat) because I was delusional and thought I was in love with him, I believed him when he said he wasn't. My other best friend used to plant seeds that it was her, I think she had always been jealous of my friendship with my ex best friend and I feel like she may have stirred things up and made them worse. Anyway the outcome was my best friend showed me some messages that my ex best friend had sent her about me and I got mad and told her I didn't want to be friends with her anymore. We had a huge row and my best friend now and I fell out with our ex friend. (Sorry if this is confusing). 

Lately I have been seeing another side to the girl I'm still friends with, shes paranoid and very insecure to the point its making her toxic. I have tried to brush it off but she keeps bringing up stuff that happened in the past and implying that her boyfriend she now lives with fancies me. We had spoken and sorted this out but she keeps bringing it up and now its making me uncomfortable. But now I am thinking if she didn't stir everything up with my ex best friend then maybe we would still be friends. I am feeling very conflicted with the two of them, but also feel I owe my ex best friend an apology. I know if I apologised to her though that my friend now would fall out with me because she would see it as being disloyal. When its nothing to do with her, I just don't want to hold this hurt around anymore and I want to say sorry for any hurt I may have caused. I do miss my ex best friend very much, she was selfish and not a good friend at times but she also was at the same time. I am very confused! 

Sorry if this is off topic of getting your ex boyfriend back! xx

 
If I were you, I would follow my heart and do what I felt was right for me and wouldn't concern myself with whether anybody else approved or not.

Yeah true, I just don't want to hurt my current friend in the process but I feel like it may do that. It's hard, she has already caused so much damage anyway, I still want to be friend with her but I am afraid I cant cope with her paranoia anymore, especially when it insults my integrity as a person! 

What are your current friends good points?

Avaelle wrote:

Whats up Meg?!

Hey! How have you been? Sorry I don't come on here often as its more to do with getting an ex back and i'm very happy in my relationship haha! Hows everything going? I decided to not contact my ex best friend, I send her light and love and wish her well, but I feel our friendship ended for a reason. I also have sorted things out with my current best friend, I think she started to realise what she was doing after I pulled back a bit because of what she was bringing up! Everything has been pretty good ever since, its definitely a great feeling letting go of everything and letting it unfold how the universe wants it too, just tell it what you want and it manifests in the strangest ways ;) xxx