Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Something physical?

**Posted by Olive** 12/23/2017 12:07 pm

Guys... today happened something weird. I am trying to manifest a guy back it has been six months. I had ups and downs about it. We stayed friends, but only saw each other a few times since. He was just friendly no signs of attraction or feelings anymore. I decided to not text him anymore and he texted me every month or so but just hi hows life stuff. Today all of a suddden he texted and began to say sexual stuff that he wants me stuff like that. That is not normal for him.. we didn’t had sex when we dated because we weren’t official and he said he only wants that when he is official. However I asked him that I thought he does not want something like this and he said that is right but he wants my body he does not know why... honestly although I want a relation I would not have something against this.. And maybe this is how the manifestation comes about? My friend said I should not do that because he left but I would like to I think

Last edited by Olive (12/23/2017 12:09 pm)

**Posted by yellowrose** 12/23/2017 12:42 pm

Of course it’s up to you, but my advice is I would not do this. What happens if he continues to only want your body but not a relationship? Then you get caught in a cycle of sleeping with him & eventually feeling miserable because you realize you aren’t getting what you really want in the end. That’s not showing respect for yourself & what you want. Your desires are important too. As I said, do what you want but I would tell him you won’t do that stuff without a relationship & continue to work on attracting a relationship with him.

**Posted by Olive** 12/23/2017 1:18 pm

I understand your point and of course this came into my mind. But honestly I would use him too? We would both use each other. And I don‘t want to say the manifestation should not come this way. Maybe this is the way he comes back, maybe not. I would like to do it though and when it is just a one thing, then fine, if it becomes rehular, okay. If he still has feelings and that is the way for him to come back. I won‘t find out if I don‘t try it So I feel okay with it. If he just wants that then fine.. I then know what kind of a man he really is but I had fun

**Posted by yellowrose** 12/23/2017 1:47 pm

Well it isn’t your actions that are going to bring your manifestation, it’s your energy. Just going by action isn’t even working with the LOA. It’s what people who don’t know about the LOA do. So remember not to try to do things to get him to be in a relationship with you. If you don’t have your energy right, you can do that all you want & it won’t work. Feeling like you would feel if you were already in a relationship with him & staying in that feeling consistently every day is what’s gonna manifest the relationship. If you don’t do that & just have sex with him & keep hoping that he will want a relationship, it won’t work. The relationship is manifested by you, not him.

**Posted by Olive** 12/23/2017 1:52 pm

You are right thanks for reminding me. I guess some of the manifestation process I pit up the last months had worked. I will be very aware of my energy, even if I start this with him, I will feel good and be careful to not get needy or put expectations. I will go with the flow and see what comes out

**Posted by Sanshi** 12/23/2017 6:42 pm

Yellowrose is right. It's never about your actions. It's about what you feel to be true, about your beliefs. What do you expect to happen, if you slept with him? There are people who would believe that it would make things worse and others would believe it would make things better. Regardless of what you believe, you will always be right.