Hello everyone, a few weeks ago i posted my story here about how my insecurity had ruined relationship. So now I’m trying to be positive but at the same time I don’t want to be too positive and get disappointed at the end. So my guy has not said anything that indicates that he still wants me, but we did text a bit. But I somewhat feel that he’s keeping a bit of distance and to be fair he told me that his mom was very ill and it caused him a lot of stress. I want to be there for him but at the same time he doesn’t want to open up to me. I know I shouldn’t be selfish and should give him his alone time. But in a way I feel like he’s treating me like a stranger.

It’s weird because for the past few weeks since I started being positive I’ve been seing his name everywhere. I even went overseas for holiday and I met a few people with the same name just in different spelling and language. I thought this was a positive sign from the universe. I also have been visualising our wedding day as he had mentioned previously that he wanted to get married within the next 5 years. Almost right away I started seeing the name that we had discussed to be the name of our firstborn if it was a girl. I really want to be believe that these are positive signs from the universe. But I read somewhere that if you’re seeing the name of the person you would like to attract, it just means that your energy is focused towards that person. Not necessarily a sign from the universe. Can anyone please help me on this based on experience please. Thank you so much