Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Confusion about my feelings

**Posted by MiciJones** 12/08/2017 12:43 pm

Hi guys.. since i made a desicion that i'm open up to relationship with someone else, it feels like i no longer want my ex back but want him at the same time. It causes me bad feelings when i think of him. I am able to live as if when i think of someone new and feel the live and excitiment of a new relationship, but not when i think of him. This forum made me feel like it's a long and diffucult process to get ex back and i don't want to be one of those who arare doing many techniques for months and nothing really ever happens or the new relationship is not as good as it was. Maybe it's just fear that i won't get what i want and i will just waste my time wanting someone while i can have better relationship. I don't even know for sure if i still love him or i'm just holding on some memories and the fact he was my first seriouse relationship. Either i can't get rid of the negative feeling i hold to him since i'm thinking about moving on. Any suggestions? :/

**Posted by MiciJones** 12/08/2017 1:50 pm

Also i would like to know if imagining a relationship with someone else (not someone special, just my imaginary guy) can lead to manifesting my desired boyfriend. I can feel really lost in the good feelings of the relationstip, i feel the love and everything. My bad feelings comes from wondering if it's contraproductive for manifesting my SP. I decided to honestly look at my feelings about it. I imagined that my imaginary guy and my desired guy both stands in front of me and i asking me to choose one of them. And i allways feels so much joy thinking about choosing my SP.. i have tears of joy in my eyes so i guess i still really want to be with him. But it's easier for me imagining relationship with someone else to keep my vibrations hight. Actually i was feeloning really well because of it today and my friend asked me for a date. So can this be a tool for manifesting my SP once i asked universe for him? I was trying to get him for two months with little succes but i messed up because i was very needy so i guess universe pretty much knows what i want. Do you think it will help or it will be contraproductive? I also don't want to loose other opportunities.

**Posted by sillyromantic** 12/08/2017 2:00 pm

I'm in the same place as you right now and it's very confusing. I also met someone at my job who I'm somewhat interested in and is starting to show a little interest back so I have days that I still think about and visualize my ex with me and some with this new guy. Why is it so confusing? :-) but either way I know that I made such big steps on my journey and even my ex is noticing that I've grown and changed a lot so I'm taking the confusion with gratefulness too. Let me know how things pan out for you. We can do this!

**Posted by MiciJones** 12/08/2017 2:30 pm

Yeah i will definitly keep you updated i think they will come when we move on with someone else ;)

**Posted by sillyromantic** 12/09/2017 7:29 am

That is very possible. Everyone is telling me to watch out when they break up or he's down again he'll come running for me since I was there for him at his lowest. I believe that them moving in together so quickly is a recipe for disaster anyway but I'm so much more at peace now without him