What do you think If somebody just to pretend he or she isnt obssesion or dependent? Can have a person good relationship too? When they dont feel these feelings but they just pretend? Because are people who dont know loa and when they break up so they still stalk their exes and they are sad but they pretend that they dont miss them  and are happy and their exes come back too. And are people who have a relationship and they to pretend these things too and they have a good relationship even thought they dont feel really these feelings but they just pretend they care less.