PrettyFlamingo wrote:
The book referred to in the thread you've posted in and recommended by Cynthia. I don't think there is a link but it can be bought on Amazon.
Yes, I did recommend that book, mainly because of the part where she's talking about being very specific about exactly what you want in the relationship in detail and not missing anything out so everything is just the way you want it. I think that's really important not to leave anything to chance. There are other things I disagree with, like for example the so-called 'letting go', which is contrary to Neville's (and others') teachings and makes no sense anyway, and also 'this or something better' which I personally believe can easily be used as an excuse to give up on something that you say you really want based on a lack of faith and belief that you can have it. If you change your mind because you've decided you honestly don't want it any more, that's one thing, but 'this or something better' can easily be used as an excuse to give up too soon and to fail and to let yourself off the hook, which is very sad when it doesn't have to be that way and something I wouldn't personally do.
Last edited by Cynthia (3/30/2019 2:40 am)