Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / "add friend", "other snapchatters" (removing via social media)

**Posted by YesIWILL** 7/12/2017 5:46 am

So what's the secret to NOT feeling like **** and like you're off-putting, when you find that someone removed you from social media? Even if it is a personal reason, how does one get to that "eh their loss" attitude instead of feeling really hurt and taking it to heart and overthinking?

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 7/12/2017 6:04 am

Probably just time and using that time to spend on myself doing stuff I love and being with people who like me.

I don't do social media in that sense so the being blocked phenomenon has never happened to me. I've had people ignore my email and text contact however which was hurtful because they were friends I'd known for many years. The people you describe don't know you well enough to reject the real you. At the very most they're rejecting the idea of you, which is not you!

I just tell myself I'm really a good person and it is their loss.

**Posted by YesIWILL** 7/12/2017 7:57 am

PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Probably just time and using that time to spend on myself doing stuff I love and being with people who like me.

I don't do social media in that sense so the being blocked phenomenon has never happened to me. I've had people ignore my email and text contact however which was hurtful because they were friends I'd known for many years. The people you describe don't know you well enough to reject the real you. At the very most they're rejecting the idea of you, which is not you!

I just tell myself I'm really a good person and it is their loss.

Thank you. I'm trying hard. And what if they do know me?

**Posted by jensherratt** 7/12/2017 10:12 am

Do something that makes you happy. That's all that matters.