happyinlove wrote:
80saeaak wrote:
Yeah, projection could make a person not see worth that you don't see in yourself and could make his eye wander, but I think we give too many people passes with "I manifested this". We all have free will including these men. To become interested in another woman may be projected. To act on it is another story entirely. Some people have crap morals and that's just that.
The better question is why you don't think you're better than this? Why do you think you deserve a man who would knowingly hurt you, projected or not? You need to work on loving yourself because if you don't, you will continue to get more of the same from this man or someone entirely different. Self-love is ALWAYS the first step. People want to skip this and go straight for the "I need him back". Either your desperation to get him back will repel him or, if you get him back, it will be more of the same because you don't see your worth.
Step one: Forget about him. Once you stop visualizing him and changing your focus when he creeps into your head, it will only take a week or two to stop hurting and get an epiphany. I'm a cancer, too. That's not a pass. We all can control our emotions regardless of zodiac sign. It's about wanting to get over him. That's all it takes.
But what if you want your guy not sure if he did intentionally and you've seen him be better?
I agree, Just sounds like this person wants anyone who has a 3rd party involved to not be with them. First off we attracted them there subconsciously we are trying to figure out how to change that subconsciously somehow. 
But I dont have time for negative nancies now a days. I am moving on from the BS. And, needing positive people only.
