Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / What should be my next step?

**Posted by meenboy** 1/22/2017 2:07 pm

Hi friends,

I am trying to prepare myself as to how I should approach my girl on phone. I mean, we haven't been in touch for 10 days or so. I don't know when she will call (and I don't think I will initiate a call either - though this thing isn't important). I am not waiting for the call. What I want to know is what should my approach be like? Do I show a lot of excitement or just a cold approach or a neutral one for that matter. Please help.

**Posted by Avaelle** 1/23/2017 11:23 am

Think about this for a second. How would a cold or neutral approach help you in the least bit?

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 1/23/2017 12:00 pm

What are you wanting to say to her on the phone?

**Posted by meenboy** 1/23/2017 12:58 pm

Avaelle wrote:
Think about this for a second. How would a cold or neutral approach help you in the least bit?

I was just thinking if this could help me a bit in making her miss me more or make her think that she should have contacted me before and she was too late in calling me, etc. etc. I mean these are just the possibilities.

Please help me.

**Posted by meenboy** 1/23/2017 1:03 pm

PrettyFlamingo wrote:
What are you wanting to say to her on the phone?

Whatever I can say to give a feeling that she should have called me earlier or that I am unhappy for such a long layoff between two calls. Something like this, you know!!!

**Posted by Avaelle** 1/23/2017 1:11 pm

meenboy wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
What are you wanting to say to her on the phone?
Whatever I can say to give a feeling that she should have called me earlier or that I am unhappy for such a long layoff between two calls. Something like this, you know!!!

Generating negativity is never a good thing. If you want a loving relationship with this person, you shouldn't be doing this.

**Posted by meenboy** 1/23/2017 1:41 pm

Avaelle wrote:
meenboy wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
What are you wanting to say to her on the phone?
Whatever I can say to give a feeling that she should have called me earlier or that I am unhappy for such a long layoff between two calls. Something like this, you know!!!
Generating negativity is never a good thing. If you want a loving relationship with this person, you shouldn't be doing this.

Oh yes.... that's also true. But for a moment, I just thought otherwise.

BTW, I was just contemplating if the "weapon" of ignoring our girl/guy can help at times. Maybe, I had this in mind and it can work.

**Posted by Avaelle** 1/23/2017 1:44 pm

Just view it as creating an argument your first day back and expecting it to go well.

**Posted by meenboy** 1/23/2017 1:56 pm

Avaelle wrote:
Just view it as creating an argument your first day back and expecting it to go well.

Well, nope. But thanks for alerting me in time. Will try to go smoothly on track and of course will keep you posted about this. There are almost two weeks since we talked. No arguments, no misunderstandings, nothing. It's just a lag time, I guess.

But yes, I need to tell one thing. The WhatsApp DP of my girl that I used to visualise in my RS was gone for a few days. It was one of her best pictures with me, which I love a lot. And after changing a few of them, she has set the same old pic again. So, this is good news to me. I don't know how important that is, because then why did she CHOOSE that particular pic only which I used for my RS sessions? Co-incidence? Or how do you see this as?

Thanks so much!!!

**Posted by Avaelle** 1/23/2017 2:41 pm

meenboy wrote:
Avaelle wrote:
Just view it as creating an argument your first day back and expecting it to go well.
Well, nope. But thanks for alerting me in time. Will try to go smoothly on track and of course will keep you posted about this. There are almost two weeks since we talked. No arguments, no misunderstandings, nothing. It's just a lag time, I guess.

But yes, I need to tell one thing. The WhatsApp DP of my girl that I used to visualise in my RS was gone for a few days. It was one of her best pictures with me, which I love a lot. And after changing a few of them, she has set the same old pic again. So, this is good news to me. I don't know how important that is, because then why did she CHOOSE that particular pic only which I used for my RS sessions? Co-incidence? Or how do you see this as?

Thanks so much!!!

I see it as great news.