LearningToDetach wrote:
Just when I went to his fb and saw he added someone new and i started crying...
Thank you for this. I will get him back. I know that..
I'm sorry but that is silly. I added someone new recently too and guess what he's a man. And we are not remotely romantically interested in each other. We're linked through another person and a musical interest, and he's funny and good to chat with.
You're reading too much into something that is possibly nothing and you need to look at what else is filling your life instead of pining over someone. Do things for you that aren't about the guy.
I've been there, I'm not necessarily being hard, but you could make so much more of life; instead you're wasting it. You're constantly posting about crying and that is no way to live your life. I know because I did it for a whole year. And it was pointless. Are you suffering with depression? That's maybe something to address if so. You seem in no place to manifest much, like this.
Chin up girl, spend the next few weeks on you, create an amazing life and then come back to considering the guy when you are more grounded.
And stay away from his sodding Facebook!