Really good thread!!! I changed my attitude toward visualisation and RS the other day. I just thought I would do if for my own enjoyment really and that seemed to shift the emotion a bit to more of allowing. So, basically, I am not so much focussed on the other person or outcome, I'm just enjoying what I'm doing/how I'm interacting with them that makes me feel good. I think when you start to just think about these processes/tools as something to just play with, it will set the tone for 'allowing' much more easily. So, just relax and if you skip a day it doesn't matter. Just visualise etc whenever you feel like it and also affirm that 'its already done' I like to affirm out loud then just confidently say 'it is done' whilst clicking my fingers. This seems to instill confidence and certaintly in me. Letting go and just trusting are so important, and also trusting in Divine timing, I've seen amazing synchronicities take place when I trust in the Divine unfolding of it all and affirm this every day. 'Everything is always working out for me' . And then just staying happy and taking pleasure in the everyday, be good to yourself, love yourself and do nice things for yourself. Make pleasure and your own joy/happiness a way of life. Allow your good to come to you, it will!!! I love this forum, thank you for all your wonderful sharings 