It's not clear if this is your boyfriend or merely someone you like. What sort of relationship do you want with this person?

You need to start first of all by looking at why you feel it necessary to mess around and play silly games with people "for a joke" which doesn't seem to fit with the idea of a relationship. What did you hope to achieve?

Think this over first.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Well - how did this go?

 
No reply. lol. I don't think she liked what you said, but I would have asked her to look within and ask herself why she felt the need to self-destruct when things were going well, and she would probably have liked that even less.