salisali wrote:

I was dating a very nice guy. He seemed very into me. Then all of a sudden he started to ghost me.
I am on day 7 at the 25-day challenge by Veronica. Last night a friend asked me if I wanted to go to a bar with her and I felt a strong intention to join her because i knew something would happen. And yes. There he was. My Crush. I saw him walking on the street. I think he was very drunk. So I said hi, and he said hi back and he tried give me a high five. He was acting like nothing wrong happened while he ignored me for more then a month (after having very nice dates) Then he immideately said:"We're all very tired so we're going home'' and all i could say was a very cold "Okay." And we walked away. 

I feel like this is the moment for him to text me. But on the other hand this stresses me out. I don't even wanna check my phone anymore, because i am afraid to find the lack of what I want. Do you have advice?

Love,
Martijn

 

 
What is it exactly that you want of this person, a text message or a relationship with him? If it's a relationship, you've got to live in the end in your imagination of already having the relationship.

My advice would be the same I always give - study Neville Goddard's teachings about conscious creation and start applying them to all areas of your life. They are simple, effective, and right to the point and virtually the only ones I know about that don't put any limitations on what can be consciously created, and I've studied and applied this subject for a long time and have read many authors' books. You're creating your life anyway, with or without your conscious cooperation, so you might as well learn to do it consciously and choose what you want. One of his main teachings was to 'live in the end of the wish fulfilled', so those so-called 'techniques' that are promoted by various people on this forum and elsewhere such as remote seduction, 'pussy whip', 'make him burn with desire' and whispering technique are all attempts to control and manipulate somebody from a distance to 'get' something, and none of them are living in the end, so save yourself the time and energy and instead of any of them study Neville's teachings and apply them. They work if you apply them correctly. You also don't have to love yourself or feel good in order to consciously create something. There's nothing wrong with having them, but they're not necessary. Be patient and persistent. This is not a race, and setting a time limit is not a good idea because it creates unnecessary stress and anxiety and makes people think they've failed, that it doesn't work, and they give up if they don't achieve the results they wanted within a specified time. It also tends to make people try to force a result within a given time, and force is counterproductive. Things take as long as they take, just as it takes a certain amount of time for seeds that are planted to sprout and grow.

salisali wrote:

Hi Cynthia, 
Thank you so much for your attention and time. I really appreciate what you wrote, it gave me peace.  <3 I will definitely study Goddard's teachings. 
Thank you. 

 
You're very welcome. I'm happy I could help you.