Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / What.....

**Posted by luckygirl77** 7/09/2018 6:41 pm

Hi. So..
Based on my previous posts, my boyfriend came back and we did Friends with Benefit. Now I realize that I don't want a FWB thing with him, i want an actual relationship with him, but he still doesn't want one with me.

After hooking up two nights ago, he stopped reaching out to me. Like not a single word from him since that night. Before our hook up, he would hit me up every single day, but now it's like he stopped.

I wasn't being clingy or needy or anything. I literally played it cool. But now i'm wondering, what the heck just happened.... like why did he just disappear on me like that? I don't get it.... like i'm trying to wrap my head around this.

**Posted by Roy-LOA** 7/10/2018 3:06 am

Well this is not necessarilly LOA related, but from the perspective of a guy.
A while ago i was in a similar sort of situation, i had a FWB (although i was not previously in a relationship with her, so she wasn't my ex or former love interest), And she told me she developed feelings for me and wanted a relationship eventually. She was a very nice and lovely girl but i didn't feel the same way and i got scared basically. So i stopped contact with her. The combination of being scared of comitment and not wanting to hurt her feelings made me do that. I figured it was better if the feelings she developed for me subsided by me not being in contact with her.
However, your situation is a bit different, since you and your guy already have a history together.
Maybe there's anything helpful for you in this video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UMa58-NdTaw